re: FAKING AN ORGASM. HELP.

Quoting masonsmommy1311:" bucking??? ...further explain please   lol . and yes, i have tried to get on top. that ALMOST gets me there. but i would deff have to try the vibrator and doggy style ordeal  "

like... lmao, I don't know how to explain it. You know when people are on mechanical bulls and they grind their hips back and forth? If I'm already like SUPER close to orgasm that will do it. For me, anyway. It worked a lot better pre-baby for some reason. But try it!

<blockquote><b>Quoting Mr. Ant:</b>" Tell him you've been faking it and about your orgasm issues. Women are a sexual mystery, so any knowledge that you can give to him will only help both of you."</blockquote>



Look at you saying the opposite of all of us  

<blockquote><b>Quoting masonsmommy1311:</b>" bucking??? ...further explain please   lol . and yes, i have tried to get on top. that ALMOST gets me there. but i would deff have to try the vibrator and doggy style ordeal  "</blockquote>



Sit upright when you're on top and allow yourself to go a little wild  

Quoting Big'n:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mr. Ant:</b>" Tell him you've been faking it and about your ... [snip!] ... that you can give to him will only help both of you."</blockquote> Look at you saying the opposite of all of us  "

Haha, Anthony!

Freaking imagine your wife comes to you and is like "All those times... no... just sorry... I faked it" Wouldn't you rather continue thinking you were the king of the castle?

Quoting Big'n:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Mr. Ant:</b>" Tell him you've been faking it and about your ... [snip!] ... that you can give to him will only help both of you."</blockquote> Look at you saying the opposite of all of us  "

Well, you know me.  


It may wound his sense of manhood, but I think it's only best to have communication in the bedroom. As a guy, I want to know what works and what doesn't....feedback is all I ask for.

<blockquote><b>Quoting máthair draíocht:</b>" Nothing wrong with you at all. Sex is a wonderful thing but its a little more complex when we start factoring ... [snip!] ... helps me. I can't seem to get the O without extra stimulation. My oh my what we'll talk to strangers about on the internet, eh?"</blockquote>



This is what I have to do....and since I've started doing it, my husband has been very accommodating. He will slow down and allow me to get mine.

Quoting Legendary Amanda:" Haha, Anthony! Freaking imagine your wife comes to you and is like "All those times... no... just sorry... I faked it" Wouldn't you rather continue thinking you were the king of the castle? "

Nope, I'd much rather give her real satisfaction than think that I had been.

Quoting máthair draíocht:" Nothing wrong with you at all. Sex is a wonderful thing but its a little more complex when we start factoring ... [snip!] ... helps me. I can't seem to get the O without extra stimulation. My oh my what we'll talk to strangers about on the internet, eh?"

hahahaa that was funny  ! But I have to say I agree. Sometimes this pregnancy is a blessing for sex for us, and sometimes it bums us out lol! But I agree with your earlier post.....blame it on the baby because that could be partially why it's not working now to for her too!

thanks for the advice everyone   *FINGERS CROSSED.*

Quoting Mr. Ant:" Nope, I'd much rather give her real satisfaction than think that I had been."

Well you would know better than us!!

Quoting Legendary Amanda:" Well you would know better than us!!"

I still think my SO would internally cry... lmao

Quoting ℳary ℐane:" I still think my SO would internally cry... lmao"

Don't get me wrong, his manhood will be hurt....mine would be, too. But, this isn't really about his feelings, it's about hers.

  i'm just gonna try new things to start off with. and take it day by day......easy way to do it.

Quoting Mr. Ant:" Don't get me wrong, his manhood will be hurt....mine would be, too. But, this isn't really about his feelings, it's about hers."

But isn't it better to find a solution that will soothe both? I am not saying continue to lie...but perhaps don't disclose that there had been a problem previously. Bring it up now and damage control....but don't break the poor dude's ego.

<blockquote><b>Quoting máthair draíocht:</b>" But isn't it better to find a solution that will soothe both? I am not saying continue to lie...but ... [snip!] ... disclose that there had been a problem previously. Bring it up now and damage control....but don't break the poor dude's ego."</blockquote>




He needs to understand that it isn't necessarily under his control. Most guys are aware that women fake it part of the time.