OMG!!!!!

im soooo pissed!!!!my boyfriend has been gone for barely 4 days and now hes saying he doesnt think the baby is his!!!!
im like wtf!!!!u idiot!!!
he says he doesnt feel close!!

Quoting footloose:“ im soooo pissed!!!!my boyfriend has been gone for barely 4 days and now hes saying he doesnt think the baby is his!!!! im like wtf!!!!u idiot!!! he says he doesnt feel close!!”

Yeah thats worth an OMG!! What a jerk. So he's basically saying he doesnt trust you and you sleep around. Why would he say such a athing? Does he have reason to suspect it may not be his?

WOW  
What would make him think anything like that?
Sorry you have to deal with an asshole..

he thinks ive been cheating on him but i have never even been with someone else that way other then him....i told him if he pays for a lie detector test ill take it cause im tired of getting accused

mabey its the guys he is around....i was told by a friend in the military that alot..I mean alot of military wives cheat...its something the guys talk about together...mabey he heard a few horror stories and now hes being a complete retard. Still its wrong for him to assume its happeningt o him just because it happens to somone else. I would be so mad 

I'm sorry   maybe he'll come around, or maybe he won't and you'll be better off without him :/

on another note, I live in AZ too and me and my on and off again ex got together on the 15th of Sept 06 too... weird  

what a BEEEEEEPPPP.. beeeeepppp sorry.. 2 many rude words i could throw his way.. He needs 2 grow up and get ready 2 b a daddy...

I would say to him " its the guilty ones who accuse the other of cheating" see what he sais...cause this dude has issues. Thats so unhealthy for you for him to be accusing you all the time..tell him to see a shrink

give him some time hes just freaking probubly..myfiance is amazing but when i told him i was pregnant..he mentioned it acouple times...alot of girls try to pin babys on the guys they want so you cant blame them for being alittle cautious.

Quoting footloose:“ he thinks ive been cheating on him but i have never even been with someone else that way other then him....i told him if he pays for a lie detector test ill take it cause im tired of getting accused”

Nah not a lie detector, a paternity test if he is really THAT convinced. Listen...my husband and I were going through a "dry spell" and the ONLY time that we had sex was a night he had a few drinks and it was late...he fell asleep right after. Well that was the night we conceived...and I remember the exact date and how it went down (pretty fast lol). But because he didn't really remember doing it, he made a terrible comment to me a few weeks back to the effect of "how do I know it's mine?" I nearly divorced him on the spot.
I think that MANY guys are so insecure that it will cross their brain at some point...it's just the insensitive jerks that actually have the sack to say it out loud. Now granted, my husband KNEW in his heart there was no way it couldn't be his (we worked at the same place together and I never go out so we pretty much spent every waking moment together...ugh.)

I think your man is feeling scared and insecure and cannot be there with you or know what you are doing 24/7 and this is just his screwy way of letting those feelings surface. You need to let him know that you will only say it one that this child is his and if he continues to doubt you or act distant, than you will not put up with it. Tell him he is welcome to pay for a paternity test apon the birth of the baby but just know that may cause a huge riff between you...
Something to that effect.
Give him some time...if it was a fluke comment and a jerkass moment of weakness, let it slide but never ever allow him to get away with it again.
Good luck (sorry this was so long...it's a fresh subject in my mind lol )
<3

Quoting PhillyGirl:“ Nah not a lie detector, a paternity test if he is really THAT convinced. Listen...my husband and I ... [snip!] ... ever allow him to get away with it again. Good luck (sorry this was so long...it's a fresh subject in my mind lol ) <3”

good answer 

Quoting Sara12345:“ good answer ”

Thanks...I moonlight as Dr. Phil...only with a little more hair and a little less fat.

Why the hell do guys even try pulling this crap? If you've stuck the stick in, there's a pretty damn good chance the kid is yours! Seriously, why are some men such huge tards?

Quoting ~*~HautéMama~*~:“ Why the hell do guys even try pulling this crap? If you've stuck the stick in, there's a pretty damn good chance the kid is yours! Seriously, why are some men such huge tards?”

id love to say its not womens fault but for the amount of slutty men out there THERES ALOT OF SLUTTY/MAURY CHICKS OUT THERE! (not saying that about everyone of course...ive heard stories though

Ehhh??? What a jerk! Tell him to do a paternity test and that'll show him some rock soild proof. Military life and a military family is very hard. A lot of the guys feel susceptibleto jealousywhen they're not around and nonetheless that a lot of the wives have cheated and lied to them.