re: Broke up with my baby dad

Quoting MommyingWithGrace:" My grandfather cheated on my grandmother and his second wife. He has *never* cheated on his 3rd wife. ... [snip!] ... a month after they met. men can change. Just because he hit his previous wife, doesnt mean he would hit his current wife."

I was going to stay out of this little side convo... but now you're comparing cheating to abuse?? Wtf!

Quoting Blair Waldorf (SuperKink):" You're not very bright, are you? VERBAL abuse can turn into physical abuse. Why would you think that ... [snip!] ... hit her as much. It is NEVER the woman's fault. There is NO reason for ANYONE to put their hands on another person in anger."

I never said it was the woman's fault. I wasnt speaking for all women either. Some men are just repeat abusers. I am saying that just because he hit one woman doesnt mean he will hit another.

Quoting MommyingWithGrace:" My grandfather cheated on my grandmother and his second wife. He has *never* cheated on his 3rd wife. ... [snip!] ... a month after they met. men can change. Just because he hit his previous wife, doesnt mean he would hit his current wife."

Im sorry but my ex is proof of that smurf.

He did worse to his now wife then me.

Quoting Mrs.Mud:" I was going to stay out of this little side convo... but now you're comparing cheating to abuse?? Wtf!"

Oh my gosh. You guys must be bored. Always taking things way out of context and way too literal.

<blockquote><b>Quoting MommyingWithGrace:</b>" My grandfather cheated on my grandmother and his second wife. He has *never* cheated on his 3rd wife. ... [snip!] ... a month after they met. men can change. Just because he hit his previous wife, doesnt mean he would hit his current wife."</blockquote>




He didnt hit her but im not blvasting his info, they dropped his case

Quoting MommyingWithGrace:" I never said it was the woman's fault. I wasnt speaking for all women either. Some men are just repeat abusers. I am saying that just because he hit one woman doesnt mean he will hit another."

You said "some women just know how to push a man's buttons." Translate: SHE is at fault!

Quoting MommyingWithGrace:" Eh, just because he obviously did something to her doesnt mean he would do that to someone else. Some women just know how to push buttons I guess."

So I guess since BD doesn't abuse his crack head of a girlfriend or exgf whatever she is now but beat the living smurf out of me, I just knew how to push his buttons? I guess working full time and going to school full time while he didn't work or even watch his kid meant I was just pushing buttons by asking him to help out so I didn't have to spend even more money on babysitting and such? I guess I deserved it.

Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:" You said "some women just know how to push a man's buttons." Translate: SHE is at fault!"

 

Quoting Jude the Super Kinkster:" You said "some women just know how to push a man's buttons." Translate: SHE is at fault!"

I agree...

and we arent taking things literal. We are using your words.

Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" Im sorry but my ex is proof of that smurf. He did worse to his now wife then me. "

Some guys never do change. It happens. But I wont sit and talk down on someone because they married a man who had a restraining order on him. If everyone on BG knew half the SOs you guys were with, they would probably have opinions on them too. Just saying. You dont know her situation with her husband. neither do I. All I am saying is, just because he did something to his ex doesnt mean he will do it to her....necessarily.

Quoting MommyingWithGrace:" Some guys never do change. It happens. But I wont sit and talk down on someone because they married ... [snip!] ... neither do I. All I am saying is, just because he did something to his ex doesnt mean he will do it to her....necessarily."

That doesn't mean it was her fault!

Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:" So I guess since BD doesn't abuse his crack head of a girlfriend or exgf whatever she is now but beat ... [snip!] ... buttons by asking him to help out so I didn't have to spend even more money on babysitting and such? I guess I deserved it. "

Yeah, that is what I said. Every woman who gets hit knows how to push buttons.
...Please, note the sarcasm....

Quoting MommyingWithGrace:" Yeah, that is what I said. Every woman who gets hit knows how to push buttons. ...Please, note the sarcasm...."

Im sorry you are an idiot.

Yeah I asked for it when I asked him to leave my house and hepulled me by my neck and pulled me to the couch. Yeah I really asked for it. Or I asked for him to sneak in my house and then a couple days later if I didnt get back with him he could come in my house and kill me.. Oh yeah I really asked for it.

Quoting Click Me Click Me!!!:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Blair Waldorf (SuperKink):</b>" Your SO's ex wife had a restraining ... [snip!] ... were dropped, the order was not... We have gotten in fights not n front of the kids and hes never put a hand on me or my kids."

drug charges were dropped from BD but that doesn't mean he wasn't guilty.

He was depressed and trying to make a plead for help once we go to the dr on tuesday he will be on meds to be his normal self he was on then when i meet him and he is a much calmer person on meds, at the rime of his charge that was dropped he was not on meds.