re: Broke up with my baby dad

Oh for smurf's sake...
Step 1 - Look up a child support calculator for your state. Run the numbers. And "charge" him that... tell him as long as he keeps up, you'll keep it unofficial, but if he misses a payment, you'll have to go through the courts. That way, you're getting child support (which I'm not sure you deserve, but I want your child to be taken care of by his father, not the gov't) but it doesn't seem like you're selling your child. How sad.
Step 2 - stay out of bed with married men. (and if you "didn't know" he was married, then get to know a man before you get pregnant by him... just in case you were going to throw out the "innocent and clueless" excuse)

Quoting Tani.:" Did you know they were married when you guys were messing around?"

Yeah, she "thought they were an open marriage."
And I guess now it's out he's just a cheating bastard.  


And OP, you're a piece of smurf if you have a price on your morality. You should be telling her, not being paid to hide it. How would you feel if you were her, seriously?

Quoting Amber Waves:" one million dollars to keep me from exploiting his unfaithful ass to his poor wife. really. that million ... [snip!] ... youre all by yourself with a fatherless baby. soooo, if youre NOT joking, ONE MILLION DOLLARS..*in dr. evil's voice of course*"

I totally heard this in my head in Dr. Evil's voice.

10k

Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" Wait I thought your boyfriends wife knew that he had a relationship with you. But anyhow... BAHAHAHAHAHAHAH... "

If you could read correctly he doesn't want her to know about the baby

Quoting Love of His Life:" If you could read correctly he doesn't want her to know about the baby"

Still... You have a open relationship with someone there is a chance of pregnnacy... DUH. You are dumbass.

Quoting Amber Waves:" one million dollars to keep me from exploiting his unfaithful ass to his poor wife. really. that million ... [snip!] ... youre all by yourself with a fatherless baby. soooo, if youre NOT joking, ONE MILLION DOLLARS..*in dr. evil's voice of course*"

 

Quoting Monsieur Tastybutt:" "

      yep      

LOL

smurf.. maybe I'm smurffy.. I'd do it..

I agree with the calculator thing... but I'd charge a little more honestly. why not?

I wouldnt care if his wife knew. I would just get child support and go about my business. I wouldnt try breaking them up. As in I wouldnt go telling HER. I would file child support papers and if she finds out that way then so be it.

Aw I recall she knew all about you. Why would you break up with a man who pays your rent and tuition? Bitches be trippin

I don't think some can give you dignity class and morals. So you're just screwed.

What happened to the 'open relationship'?

He played you like a damn fiddle.
I don't think you should hide it, his wife has a right to know.
I'd tell her myself.
Sorry, I'm just honest like that.

#1 from mickey d's and a couple of apple pies.