Decided

Im pretty sure i have came to a decision, i've decided to abort. Its not what i want to do in my heart but logicaly its for the best and its also for the best interest of my daughter. In the future i will be able to have another one under better circumstances and be truely happy about the pregnancy. I am really scared about the whole expierence of having an abortion though. :/ I think im going to choose the surgical but only if i can be put out otherwise im choosing the pill. I hope i dont regret this and feel some sort of relief. I know its whats for the best i hate myself for putting myself in this position and having to end with this choice.

Good luck mama. <3

I'm sorry you're having to go through this  
I truly hope everything works out for you.

It's definitely not an easy decision to make, but sometimes it is for the best. I hope everything goes well for you.

Ive been through it, so if you need to talk to someone feel free to PM me. Good luck mama.

Try not to hate yourself, you're doing what you think is best. I wish you the best of luck.

): i hope everything works out ):

Good luck honey, I hope it works out for the best. <3

Honestly, the pill hurts so much more than surgical, imo. I wasn't "put under" or anything for my surgical and it barely hurt at all; a very small amount of milk cramping and that was it. It was over in less than 5 minutes. Plus, the pill can fail and then you'll just have to go in for the surgical anyway.

If you wanna talk or get details of either method, feel free to PM me.

I hope everything goes well and works out the way you want it to.

If you are not 100% sure you want an abortion, also think of adoption. If finance is why you aren't ready, people will help pay your bills and everything if you chose adoption, and those can be closed or open... do what is best for you. If you think regret will happen, then make sure you look at ALL your options and what is best for you and the baby in every aspect. Good luck