Quoting Devil Duckie:" We have a nearly 8 year old boy and a 4 1/2 year old girl. My husband doesn't want to find out this ... [snip!] ... help me be ok with this, because right now I'm going crazy. I want to give him say, but this is not sitting well with me. "
Quoting MommaNoodle:" why can't you find out and know? he doesn't have to if he doesn't want to."
Quoting ℳary ℐane:" I am the SAME way. But, I did it. I kept my second son's sex (& name) a secret till birth. I am going ... [snip!] ... I would definitely compromise with him though. Since he wants to wait you should be able to narrow your name choices down. "
Quoting babycakes!:" I am a lot like you....I make more lists than I can count. Im only 12weeks and already have a full list of what we need for this baby... A very detailed list(for both genders)."
Quoting DifferentDay:" sounds more like you don't like being without control. I'm the same way for sure and it's super hard ... [snip!] ... is hard for me, don't tease me, but don't tell me no matter how much I beg what I'm getting" see if you can even try that."
Quoting Devil Duckie:" we're going to BRU today. I plan on make a boy list and girl list w/ patter names, price , color etc. ... [snip!] ... do we do about clothes??? I don't want my poor baby wearing green for the first 3 weeks of his/her life while we stock up. "We saved money so I got to go on a "shopping spree" after he was born. I don't really mind neutral colors. Plus, I had a gut feeling it was a boy.
Quoting ℳary ℐane:" We saved money so I got to go on a "shopping spree" after he was born. I don't really mind neutral colors. ... [snip!] ... feeling it was a boy. But, you could always buy some blue and pink newborn outfits and keep the receipts and tags on them. "
Quoting DifferentDay:" I have 2 girls but I have a feeling this is a boy. And it's gonna be sooo super hard NOT to find out! ... [snip!] ... especially are always in abundance and they outgrow them so fast so why spend money at a store if you don't have to? lol"