wow just realized..

which makes me heartbroken. So I have been in early labor forver (2 months+) and I get off my meds on Nov. 8th at 38 weeks. With all my kids I had them early 1=38w 2=37w 3=331/2w. (my history)

Last year I was in an accident, long story, on November 11 Friday. So Saturday and Sunday I was dying from cramps I knew I was pregnant. My now husband and I had just got engaged that Friday and I found out after we got engaged and I threw up on him I was pregnant. Had an ultrasound showing I was 3 months along. Anyways that night I had an accident, cramping that weekend. But I was trying to be strong and have fun with my new fiance and my kids. Monday rolled around and I was bleeding like crazy. Went into the doctor and I was miscarrying. Called my fiance (now husband) home and he took me to the hospital for an ultrasound to make sure it had passed, on the drive there I will never forget the song "just breathe" by pearl jam, and my phone rang it was my BEST FRIEND. I forgot due to all the pain that I had plans with him that weekend and I missed it. Anyways I ignored it. Did the ultrasound and yep I had passed it over the weekend. I was heartbroken, I tried calling my friend no answer. I texted saying I was sorry and I really needed him. Two days later I got a call back. I answered it was his sister, he had passed away Monday and was calling to say goodbye. There is my story. Now I am freaking out that what if this baby comes on November 14th, the day I got the the news on the ultrasound and my friend passed. UGH Sorry so long. I just broke down when I put two and two together.  

I honestly don't think this one will stay in much longer. I want him to come on his own when he is ready. But am freaking that if for whatever reason he comes closer to his EDD it may land on that day.  

you should watch the long island medium on tlc its on tonight at 9. She always says not to feel bad that you didnt get to say bye they hear you when you talk to them. Best of luck. If your baby comes on that day it would give you a positive thing to think of on that date

Quoting bridget 77:" you should watch the long island medium on tlc its on tonight at 9. She always says not to feel bad that ... [snip!] ... when you talk to them. Best of luck. If your baby comes on that day it would give you a positive thing to think of on that date"

I do watch her..... she is amazing. Thanks it just hit me hard when thinking.

I'm so sorry. When I was pregnant with my first son I was in the process of moving and ignored a call from my best friend. A mutual friend called me the next day telling me that he had killed himself. I've thought since then that if I had just taken that call he might still be here. I could have saved him somehow.

What you can do is look at this baby as a blessing I know what it is like to lose a friend and not be able to say bye my friend Jessica passed at 18 when I was like 10 and it killed me inside and my cousn was born that same day about 4 years after or more. I just look as my cousin as a blessing to me because even though she is gone I know she is here with me.