re: Is this considered cool in a "relationship"?

Quoting Katie ♥ Eli:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Thalamus Nut Sack:</b>" Yeah I'm over it. This is the lamest ... [snip!] ... okay with a FWB situation when you're clearly not cut out for it. End it. You'll just be hurting yourself by continuing it."

I guess I just don't want to be alone, but I'm not in a position to have a relationship right now, even if I want one. He was the one who initially wanted a relationship with me, and I set it up like this. I just didn't realize how long we would continue seeing each other for or how many emotions would end up getting involved. He's the one that begged for me, and I've tried to dump him so many times and he practically harasses me. If it were just about sex, couldn't he just go smurf someone else? I told him that before too, and he's so insistent it's not and acts all hurt that I say that, but then does smurf like goes camping without telling me. IF THAT EVEN REALLY HAPPENED.

Goddamn I am going psycho.

Quoting Thalamus Nut Sack:" I guess I just don't want to be alone, but I'm not in a position to have a relationship right now, even ... [snip!] ... I say that, but then does smurf like goes camping without telling me. IF THAT EVEN REALLY HAPPENED. Goddamn I am going psycho."

I wonder if he's back with his baby's mom or something and cheating with you.

Quoting Legendary Amanda:" I wonder if he's back with his baby's mom or something and cheating with you. "

Lol good riddens?

Quoting Legendary Amanda:" I wonder if he's back with his baby's mom or something and cheating with you. "

  

Quoting Katie ♥ Eli:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Thalamus Nut Sack:</b>" Yeah I'm over it. This is the lamest ... [snip!] ... okay with a FWB situation when you're clearly not cut out for it. End it. You'll just be hurting yourself by continuing it."

Agreed. I for one cant handle it. I get attached too easily. Was in a FWB relationship for like 3 years on and off, and it KILLED me because i fell in love with him. He said he loved me too but just didn't want a girlfriend. Hell he told me i was the type of girl he'd marry and that he wouldn't mind kids with me. Not THE girl, just the type. Not WANTED kids, just wouldn't mind it. He played me hard core, and it about ruined me.
OP, cut your losses now before you get in too deep. It'll save A LOT of hurt on your end.

Quoting Thalamus Nut Sack:" Lol good riddens?"

Yeah, exactly!

Like any other girl you are just pussy to him. He just says he loves you bc he knows that its the only way to get you in bed . Good luck.

Quoting Legendary Amanda:" Yeah, exactly!"

This is so ridiculous. I'm already over it. When I've gotten to the point where I'd rather read a book classifying the various forms of moss from one another, I THINK maybe my PATIENCE AND INTEREST HAD BEEN EXHAUSTED.