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<3 i cant deleteee posttt. howw dumbbbb

I wouldn't want a crack head around my child, family or not.

IMO, yes. If he gets clean though then I think he has a right to see the baby but its best he isn't around if he's on drugs

The only right he has is to get himself clean and be a father to his kid.

It makes me feel like crap he isent around.. he like, apartently blaims me.. saying im being selfish. I feel like thats the addict talking but sometime i cant help but let it get to me :/

You are doing what you should be doing and that is protecting your child and not letting him/her exposed to a low life like that.

Quoting Melissa Grace:" It makes me feel like crap he isent around.. he like, apartently blaims me.. saying im being selfish. I feel like thats the addict talking but sometime i cant help but let it get to me :/"

Nope, its his fault. It just may take him awhile to realize that.

Quoting Melissa Grace:" It makes me feel like crap he isent around.. he like, apartently blaims me.. saying im being selfish. I feel like thats the addict talking but sometime i cant help but let it get to me :/"

Selfish?! if anything he's being selfish by picking that crap over being an adult and being a father to his child so i think your definitely doing the right thing. stay strong and do what is right for your baby and hopefully he will change and be a responsible parent!

I went to the doc and they gave me the okay to sked my ultrasound to find out the sex of the baby... i guess im just having ah bummer moment couse i know he wont be there.. couse he's not invited  

Quoting *Turtles*:" You are doing what you should be doing and that is protecting your child and not letting him/her exposed to a low life like that."

 


Hopefully he gets clean but until then you are doing the right thing protecting your baby.

I was with a meth addict for 10 years. I feel like my life was taken from me the whole time. I forgave him over and over. I had 2 children with him. I hurt my children more by having him in and out of our lives. The last time he took off hurt them the worst, they havent seen him in 3 years now. I wish that i would have just said enough..... I finally moved on and im with a wonderful man. Its not worth the pain it will cause you and your child once it old enough to remember. Some people can change, i did, i too was a meth addict but my children are more important. I will tell you this, that drug has ahold of you forever, it a mental addiction. It depends on the person whether they will stay clean. My husband always went back to it on the other hand i did not. The decision is up to you. If you really want him in your life try it before that child is old enough to remember but chances are he is still out there getting high. I hope the best for you. Remember it hurts but you are doing the right thing for you and your child.

Quoting shell1440:" I was with a meth addict for 10 years. I feel like my life was taken from me the whole time. I forgave ... [snip!] ... out there getting high. I hope the best for you. Remember it hurts but you are doing the right thing for you and your child."

My mom has been an addict, my intire life.. i know what its like to be "that kid". thats why im not even willing to take the chance.. sometimes it just gets to me thow... everyone call the father "a lifer" i fear he'll do it forever :/

Im glad your not willing to take that chance. It will get easier though.....it took me a while but you just have to let him be, a person only changes if they are want to. My husband is going to prison again because of it but its not worth my energy anymore. Dont worry about what others think......

If he was smart he would sober up so he can be part of babys life, and if he is willing to do that he deserves to see baby as often and he can. I think it is a gid thing that yu told him to get out no child needs to be around that stuff it is unhealthy for you and the baby and him and the baby always comes first in all situations