Im worried

Sothe other day i was having sex which the doctor said it was fine but i started bleeding like crazy bad and i went to the ER they didnt really tell me anything while i was there except that i was fine the baby was fine and i had to take it easy i have a bloodclot or something somewhere im not really sure about it but im worried they never did say if the sex was the reason i started bleeding. So ive been scared to do it and my fiance is getting fed up with it he says it will be fine but thats just a guy for you thinking with his dick so i dont know if i can do it or not im not gonna until i find out if its ok does anyone know if it is?
or has anyone been through a similar situation?

Yes. I had this happen to me at the beginning of my pregnancy. They said my cervix was tilted..Im pretty sure thats what was suppose to be tilted and that the sex was irritating it. When I went to my ultra sound I found out that I had placenta previa actually. My doctor had me on strict orders...NO SEX.

i'd say just give him a handjob or something...if it's something that you're worried about just wait til the next appointment to talk to your doctor...

***on a side note when i was reading this I swear I thought I read you were having sex with the doctor..I know my brain is messed up I just thought I'd write that***

Quoting Scott's mommy:“ i'd say just give him a handjob or something...if it's something that you're worried about just wait ... [snip!] ... I swear I thought I read you were having sex with the doctor..I know my brain is messed up I just thought I'd write that***”

aha no im not screwing my dr. lol if u saw him it would be even funnier i swear hes a hundred years old but hes nice and a good dr. though

Quoting *2weeks To Go*:“ Yes. I had this happen to me at the beginning of my pregnancy. They said my cervix was tilted..Im pretty ... [snip!] ... it. When I went to my ultra sound I found out that I had placenta previa actually. My doctor had me on strict orders...NO SEX.”

Im gonna ask my dr. about it when i go but until then im gonna give myself a strict order for no sex even if the hubby don like it he can get over it thanks for the advise
good luck on your pregnancy
hope all is well

Quoting *2weeks To Go*:“ Yes. I had this happen to me at the beginning of my pregnancy. They said my cervix was tilted..Im pretty ... [snip!] ... it. When I went to my ultra sound I found out that I had placenta previa actually. My doctor had me on strict orders...NO SEX.”

with my first pregnancy i had alot of pain after sex no bleeding that i recall but i asked my doctor about it and he said my uterus was tilted and as i got further in the pregnancy that it wouldnt tilt as much. but told me i could have sex but not lot. that made no since to me but this time around i have decided to wait till i talk to my doc tomorrow and see if i can since i lost my first baby at 20 weeks . my fiancee has been cranky lately cause i wont give in i keep telling him just wait go pleasure yourself the responce i get is if i cant pleasure u im not going to pleasure myself so i say fine then deal with it. i would just ask your doctor about it is some cases its not so bad. but would hold off on the sex till your for sure!

Quoting Landon07:“ with my first pregnancy i had alot of pain after sex no bleeding that i recall but i asked my doctor ... [snip!] ... with it. i would just ask your doctor about it is some cases its not so bad. but would hold off on the sex till your for sure!”

Yea im gonna wait til i talk 2 my dr. thx for the advise
hope all goes well for you

Quoting Landon07:“ with my first pregnancy i had alot of pain after sex no bleeding that i recall but i asked my doctor ... [snip!] ... with it. i would just ask your doctor about it is some cases its not so bad. but would hold off on the sex till your for sure!”

Maybe it was a tilted uterus. lol. That is just what the doctor told me at the ER when I went in. After going to see my midwife and having my ultra sound it was placenta previa so it was a big no-no to have sex. They also told me if sex was a MUST to be really careful, but with them saying that it seemed like sex just needed marked off the list of things to do.

Quoting Momma K Loves Big Daddy D:“ Im gonna ask my dr. about it when i go but until then im gonna give myself a strict order for no sex ... [snip!] ... no sex even if the hubby don like it he can get over it thanks for the advise good luck on your pregnancy hope all is well”

Thanks. My pregnancy has come to an end...ugh with a week and 6days to go until my due date. I wish it was at the end...these last few weeks feel like months. Good Luck with all of that though, guys can be such buttheads when it comes to getting them a piece. My babys dad did the same thing to me after I had my bleeding episode..I felt like chokin him. Auh I still feel like chokin him..lol..

Quoting Momma K Loves Big Daddy D:“ Yea im gonna wait til i talk 2 my dr. thx for the advise hope all goes well for you”

thanks. hope everything turns out ok for you as well