Quoting [yo.]:" Idk whenever they send me papers about hearings, that don't require me to go, I still go so I can know ... [snip!] ... so I can know what's going on. Yu should bring up that you got a letter in the mail about it, and just reminding him about it"
Well now it's like 3 days before the hearing. I'm afraid if I "remind" him about it, he'll go ballistic that he only has 2 days to find a ride there and somehow that'll be my fault too even though he TOLD me to handle it through the courts because I "threatened" to and he doesn't respond well to threats.
What he's referring to is when I explained that my parents had to pay my bills for me because all of my money was going to our daughter, he said he wasn't going to give me money to splurge. And I said that it was obvious that I should probably get the courts involved because he wasn't going to help pay for his daughter.
But that's probably a good idea that I go down there on Monday myself just to see what's going on.