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re: how long after abortion did uhave sex

posted 19th Oct
I would think 6 weeks like after you give birth...

Are you handling everything okay?
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I have 2 kids & live in West Columbia, Texas
posted 19th Oct
Quoting Snotface♫[usmc]:" You really could have worded that better. This still is AS. "

I wasn't trying to be smurffy by any means. I've had to have an abortion before. From MY personal experience sex was the absolute LAST thing on my mind. From getting the procedure, being mentally drained and just sore from it I didn't even want to look at Michael for about a month. A procedure like that is pretty serious and tough.
quotesmurfs?
I'm due with twins October 13th, have 1 child & live in Akron, Ohio
posted 19th Oct
Quoting ModernMan'sHustle ♥:"



You still should either delete your previous post or re-word it.
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I have 1 child & live in Kópavogur, Iceland
posted 19th Oct
<blockquote><b>Quoting MrsSpence2012:</b>" First of all why the language?Really?.....  and 2nd, I never said I was going to have sex, I was just curious if anyone actually did it sooner.Jeez Louise....talk about judging before knowing."</blockquote>

I apologize, I'm sorry. I haven't had sex in 11 months, so...my sexual frustration led to that.

Just don't risk it, please. It's your health on the line.
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I have 1 child & live in Missouri
posted 19th Oct
Quoting MrsSpence2012:" Because I;m a curious person and I just wonder about these things...that's all."


if you asking it, its probably because your thinking about it. we just go off what you tell us. if you didnt want us thinking you were about to have sex before you should, you should of told us you were just wondering and werent planning on having sex.





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I'm due July 20th (a boy), have 3 kids & live in Mueang Phuket, Thailand
posted 19th Oct
Quoting ModernMan'sHustle ♥:" I wasn't trying to be smurffy by any means. I've had to have an abortion before. From MY personal experience ... [snip!] ... just sore from it I didn't even want to look at Michael for about a month. A procedure like that is pretty serious and tSo if you


So if you had one before you'd think you'd choose your words more carefully?No, I'm not ready for sex,by all means at all....obviously.I was just curious to KNOW if anyone actually did it sooner.Otherwise I wouldn;t have written this"stupid"post and just go right now and bang my husband's brains out.  
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I have 2 kids & live in Florida
posted 19th Oct
Quoting Snotface♫[usmc]:" You still should either delete your previous post or re-word it. "

No, if I get modded for stating something "badly" that's fine. I've seen way worse on this site to get modded for stating something straight forward. I wasn't trying to be a bitch at all. It's just the way I talk. No need to sugar coat, we're all adults. I realize it's probably a sore subject but again...I apologize if I offended.
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I'm due with twins October 13th, have 1 child & live in Akron, Ohio
posted 19th Oct
Quoting ~*Amanda Evan*~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting MrsSpence2012:</b>" First of all why the language?Really?.....  ... [snip!] ... had sex in 11 months, so...my sexual frustration led to that. Just don't risk it, please. It's your health on the liniT'S COOL, BELIEVE ME  i KNOW YOU DIDN'T MEAN TO BE LIKE THAT.BUT YA, i AM not HAVING SEX...PEIOD.LOL

WHOAH...just realized everything was in caps......sorrry. I am on my phone,  
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I have 2 kids & live in Florida
posted 19th Oct
Quoting MrsSpence2012:" So if you had one before you'd think you'd choose your words more carefully?No, I'm not ready for sex,by ... [snip!] ... did it sooner.Otherwise I wouldn;t have written this"stupid"post and just go right now and bang my husband's brains out.  "

Lmao, I haven't heard that saying in a long time. I'll have to text Michael that later. ;) I am sorry if I offended though. Again, it's just how I am. Blunt and to the point. I was upset after my abortion but I just always kinda...say smurf how it is.
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I'm due with twins October 13th, have 1 child & live in Akron, Ohio
posted 19th Oct
Quoting ModernMan'sHustle ♥:" WAIT. There's medical reasons that you need to wait. You just had an embryo cut out of you, there's a ... [snip!] ... REALLY hurt you. Plus...it's 2 whole weeks, you just had an abortion...I'd think sex is the last thing on your mind right now."

 

exactly what I was thinking!
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I have 2 kids & live in Hampton, Virginia
posted 26th Nov
The first few attempts failed, because I was not emotionally healed enough, I freaked out and started crying and pushing him off just at the point of penetration. I think it was about 10 days, I had stopped bleeding and had called the clinic to make sure it was okay (they said it was)
I think it was perhaps 2 or 3 weeks later when we finally managed it, but I was a mess, it was too soon!
I was kind of forcing myself into it, and I don't know why. I think maybe I was punishing myself, I had low self-esteem so felt like it was all I was good for  
It took about 2 months for me to emotionally heal after my abortion, all but for the sexual side of things. I was still very very messed up when it came to sex. Hence not being careful 4 months later and ending up pregnant again   I was not well i was vulnerable I shouldnt have had sex as soon as I did. I personally should probably have waited several months!
It's all down to the individual though, others may be quite ready straight away but if you are considering it just please make sure with yourself that you are emotionally ready for it, and if you feel at all out of it during, stop immediately don't carry on just to save face. It will delay your healing x
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I have 2 kids & 4 angel babies & live in Manchester, United Kingdom
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