Ever since

I had this miscarriage I just haven't gave a smurf about anything. My house is gross, the kids are taken care of but I just don't give a smurf. Is that normal? I mean I'm forcing myself to do smurf and I just can't anymore.

It's possible to have PPD after a miscarriage. Do you think this could be the issue?

I'm sorry for your loss  

For me it was. It took a few months to get out of the slump, and it wasnt easy. Im sorry for your loss.

Quoting BryarWoods:" For me it was. It took a few months to get out of the slump, and it wasnt easy. Im sorry for your loss."

   

It's very normal I had lost two babies I so gave up and just didn't care anymore if I lived or died then god blessed us with a healthy baby it will get better but the pain never goes away is there someone you could talk to like a support group or counciling it may help I know what you are going through you can pm me if you want to talk

Quoting tinana +2:" It's possible to have PPD after a miscarriage. Do you think this could be the issue? I'm sorry for your loss  "

I think it is just the fact that now I don't feel good enough. Having issues at work, issues at home, it is all just adding up to be too much. Work is too insensitive for me to even tell them what is going on.

Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:" I think it is just the fact that now I don't feel good enough. Having issues at work, issues at home, ... [snip!] ... issues at home, it is all just adding up to be too much. Work is too insensitive for me to even tell them what is going on. "

I felt so tired, drained and just exhausted. I found no joy in anything. It gets better, it really does. It took alot of encouragement from DH to get me to start leaving the house other then for work and to get out and do things again. Take your time to heal, you will get there.

Quoting BryarWoods:" I felt so tired, drained and just exhausted. I found no joy in anything. It gets better, it really does. ... [snip!] ... to start leaving the house other then for work and to get out and do things again. Take your time to heal, you will get there."

Thanks. I haven't seen SO in like 3 or 4 days and apparently won't get to see him for who knows how long. Like I tried to open up to him and he said well I'm going to bed. I'm like really? WTF ever. I'm just so over everything.

What you're feeling is normal. In 2008 I was pregnant with twins and lost one of them at 18 weeks. It took everything I had in me just to get out of bed and take a shower for months. I had no desire to clean the house or do anything. I couldn't even take care of my son, when DH would go to work he would take him to my parents house and pick him up when he got off work.

In time you will feel better, have you looked into any support groups? I know a lot of hospitals and churchs have them.

Quoting tinana +2:" It's possible to have PPD after a miscarriage. Do you think this could be the issue? I'm sorry for your loss  "

This.  

OP, after my second miscarriage, I needed to be "taken care of". I couldn't and wouldn't eat, and taking care of the house was the furthest thing from my mind. My family took turns coming over and making sure that my daughter was entertained, because I just didn't and couldn't care. I didn't have it in me. Hugs.

Quoting Squeaky McGee:" This.   OP, after my second miscarriage, I needed to be "taken care of". I couldn't and wouldn't eat, ... [snip!] ... over and making sure that my daughter was entertained, because I just didn't and couldn't care. I didn't have it in me. Hugs."

Thanks. I think I'll eventually get over it. SO and I are going to start trying for another in 2 yearsish. It just takes everything in me not to cry every day then I have my good days where I'm on top of the world.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Squeaky McGee:</b>" This.   OP, after my second miscarriage, I needed to be "taken care of". I couldn't and wouldn't eat, ... [snip!] ... over and making sure that my daughter was entertained, because I just didn't and couldn't care. I didn't have it in me. Hugs."</blockquote>




This is reminding me of myself right now.... Except I don't need care but I don't really care about much any more expect trying to focus on my job & making my family work idc about anything else 90% of the time but I think it's still the baby blues, fears & what ifs yet trying to stay positive.