I was finally starting to come to terms with my termination that I had in 2008 (I was forced into it, you may have seen my other posts in the past) by having counselling but then I stopped going because I got to 38 weeks pregnant and knew I could go into labour any day, then I wouldn't be able to go because I'd be full time carer of my baby and couldn't really take her there. But anyway, I thought I was getting over it and now it's been six weeks since I had a counselling session and I'm realising I still needs those sessions. I can't help but think I should be at home with my two babies right now but instead I'm with one. Eurghhh. I just want to moan about it I guess.
I never got counselling for mine but I wish I did. Instead I dealt with it on my own because I couldn't do anything but cry when someone asked me about it I just would cry and not be able to even talk. Its a really hard thing to get over. I had one in early 2007 and I just got over it within the last year. I would try to go back so you can fully get over it and feel better. I wish I would of took the counseling but at the time I though I was fine when they offered it to me but I wasn't. I never would have imagined it taking me so many years to come to terms with it and be a little less emotional over it. I still don't like to talk about it.
I understand completely... I waited until this year to get counselling, i should have done it a lot sooner. But it's never too late and I would recommend it. I used to cry at the mention of the word 'abortion'. I've signed up to go back but the waiting list is four months. I just hope I can keep my head up until then. Respect to you x
I am sorry you are going through that. I had an abortion 2 years ago and am now 22 weeks pregnant. I never went to counseling, but should have. I sometimes go through phases where I wonder what makes this baby more special than the first, and regret what I did 2 years ago etc... Go back if that helps you, there is nothing wrong with talking to someone about how you feel. Congrats on your little one btw.