Possible abortion.

So im having a really hard time trying to decide what to do in my situation. I've always said i would never get an abortion but now i feel like it could be a good thing for this unborn child and myself. Im 19 and have a 6 month old and just found out the other day im about 5 weeks pregnant. I currently am un-employed, the father of the child has a low paying job. So finacially its not a good situation and raising 2 little ones i know will be very hard. Im stuck in a hard spot trying to decide which i can live with and the father wants to keep the baby but will support me on any decision. Please could i have some advice and please no judgeing or rude comments. thank you.

You do what is best for you and the child you already have.

If you need to talk, you can pm me.

No one can really give you advice on this it's totally up to you

can you make it work with 2 kids.. sure.. but you have to be able to do what will be best for you and the one you have now...

Do what you feel is best.

I personally would abort. But Good luck.

If Ur due begining of may Ur farther than 5 weeks.


U have to do what u think is gonna be best

Quoting Ah TAM:" If Ur due begining of may Ur farther than 5 weeks. U have to do what u think is gonna be best"

Her kid was born in may.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Yurvette [♥]:</b>" Her kid was born in may. "</blockquote>




Oh i see, my bad

I'm sorry you're feeling stuck.
If I was I'm your shoes I'd still keep it. Your man seems supportive but then again it's your life not my life .
Good luck!

Quoting Miss. Tiff:" I'm sorry you're feeling stuck. If I was I'm your shoes I'd still keep it. Your man seems supportive but then again it's your life not my life . Good luck!"

He is very supportive. A part of me wants to keep it but at the same time i think abortion is a better option considering everything. I have no money, my parents are currently helping me, my boyfriend doesnt make much right now at his job. I just had a baby 6 months ago so idk that my body can handle it again this soon or me emotionaly. None of my family is going to be happy about it. i feel like i will regret it eathier way i go :/

Quoting skittlebby:" He is very supportive. A part of me wants to keep it but at the same time i think abortion is a better ... [snip!] ... this soon or me emotionaly. None of my family is going to be happy about it. i feel like i will regret it eathier way i go :/"

I think it would be best if you did abortion. Adoption is VERY HARD.

I can't tell you to have an abortion but I can share a little with you about my situation


Make it short and simple. Bd and I were together for a couple years. I TTC this baby. He dumped me 2 days after I quit my job to be a SAHM. He lost his job bc he is always partying. He is never home. No income. I'm now 20 weeks pregnant and regret not aborting when I had the chance.

I know I haven't had my baby yet. But every day is a struggle with enjoying my pregnancy. I'm seriously struggling. And even though I JUST found a new job, they have already told me they can't guarantee my position back. I already am on welfare. And it's not enough. No where near it. I wanted this baby. And I thought I could live with my choice of keeping it. And now I struggle with it and almost resent her.

Abortion is a personal decision. For me I chose not to. And I wish I did. Others are content with their choice either way they chose. The only thing I CAN say to you is its something YOU have to be sure about. It's something you have to live with which ever way you go. Either way, you're selfless. Good luck with your decision and I hope you the absolute best.

Do any of you know where to find information on abortions and are abortions usually painful ?

<blockquote><b>Quoting skittlebby:</b>" He is very supportive. A part of me wants to keep it but at the same time i think abortion is a better ... [snip!] ... this soon or me emotionaly. None of my family is going to be happy about it. i feel like i will regret it eathier way i go :/"</blockquote>



I don't think you could ever regret bringing a life/child into this world atleast I couldn't.
the baby is obviously wanted by you both.....? Maybe you can get a job atleast part time to save. Maybe you're family won't be happy at first but may warm up to the baby? Idk how they are. Etc.
I guess if you can live with an abortion then go for it. We're not any where similar stories but I was homeless for a while right after having my dd it was unexpected but I never regretted her and we were living with my parents at the time dh had pt job lil income.some way we made it and have had some state assistance but are doing very well. We both work pt time and have opposite schedule s so no day care. Idk I think it's always possible to get whatever you want if you want it enough and work hard.
I'm not in your same position and I don't have your type if thinking but best if luck with whatever you choose.