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no sex drive?

posted 18th Oct
im 8 weeks post partum i had a c-section and tubal ligation. im also breastfeeding. i have no sex drive at all. is that normal? id like to have sex with hubby but i dont feel sexy. i didnt even brush my hair after my shower today. im stressed out, my house is always a mess my kids destroy it daily. idk what to do =/
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I have 3 kids & live in Missouri
posted 18th Oct
I felt the same and my littlest is 10 months. I am just now starting to actually want sex again. Now if I could just find the energy.
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I have 3 kids & 1 angel baby & live in Mt Gilead, Ohio
posted 18th Oct
You might just need a little more time to adjust to having the new baby! Life is crazy with a new LO and you have other kids as well. I say just give your self some time.

MY SO hates having sex with me. it makes me sad but you are not in the same situation as me... Just I saw your topic and thought you might have the same issue... now I am rambling.
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I have 1 child & live in California
posted 18th Oct
Quoting applelove:" You might just need a little more time to adjust to having the new baby! Life is crazy with a new LO ... [snip!] ... are not in the same situation as me... Just I saw your topic and thought you might have the same issue... now I am rambling."

your SO hates having sex with you?  
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I have 1 child & live in California
posted 18th Oct
Quoting applelove:" You might just need a little more time to adjust to having the new baby! Life is crazy with a new LO ... [snip!] ... are not in the same situation as me... Just I saw your topic and thought you might have the same issue... now I am rambling."

aw whats his problem???
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I have 3 kids & live in Missouri
posted 18th Oct
Quoting Mama Bird of 3:" aw whats his problem???"

He has some mental health issues and we work on it and have gone to all types of therapy but I am getting so sad and tired of all the work and all the loneliness and no sex. Its been years of trying to make my SO want to have sex with me and it is starting to wear on me and my self image. I am so sad now and we have a baby and I don't know how I could ever leave because he takes care of us.

I don't know if I can tell him I want to leave because of his mental health issues that could make him worse so I usually just keep it to my self when I feel like this and in a few weeks I will be back to just living with no sex or intimacy or hugs or anything like that
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I have 1 child & live in California
posted 18th Oct
Quoting applelove:" He has some mental health issues and we work on it and have gone to all types of therapy but I am getting ... [snip!] ... when I feel like this and in a few weeks I will be back to just living with no sex or intimacy or hugs or anything like that"

have you tried sex therapy??
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I have 3 kids & live in Missouri
posted 18th Oct
Quoting Mama Bird of 3:" have you tried sex therapy??"
I am not sure we have been to therapist who specialize in sex issues and normal therapist
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I have 1 child & live in California
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