my bd's wife found out I'm pregnant on facebook?

Well, I'm single and I plan to do this alone. After it became clear my baby's dad was in a mess of his own life I told him I got an abortion and was breaking up with him. I even quit my job to avoid his wife. I had put on my facebook that I was amazingly pregnant after being told I was infertile. His wife saw this on fb. This was when I first found out. She was happy for me but concerned why I quit saying there was nothing wrong with me being pregnant and working. She doesn't know I was ever with her husband. But now I'm kind of stuff. Like I don't want to say I lost the baby on facebook because that will turn out to be a lie I can't take back. But if I say I'm still pregnant he'll know I lied to him. I don't want him to know I'm pregnant or anything about the baby. I'd rather abort if it meant that it would be found out. I just want what's best for him and all. Anyhow, I'm at a dillema at what to really respond to with that.

Wow... good luck with that situation.

Delete her off your friends list and make your fb private? I don't understand why she was on your facebook to begin with if you were messing around with her husband.

screw him! You need to do what's best for you and the baby. How many weeks are you?

Quoting Blair Waldorf (SuperKink):" Delete her off your friends list and make your fb private? I don't understand why she was on your facebook to begin with if you were messing around with her husband."

 

First off, sleeping with a married man, and you're 19. Okay.

Anyway, if you're that worried about it, delete your facebook. There are other ways to communicate with your friends and family.

What the smurf? Just delete your Facebook.

Wow. Shouldn't have been messing around with a married man anyway. But, if you really want to keep the baby, then just delete her from your FB and make your page private...or delete your FB all together. It's not like you have to post every detail about your pregnancy on FB though. You can just tell your family and friends about it some other way.

Quoting Blair Waldorf (SuperKink):" Delete her off your friends list and make your fb private? I don't understand why she was on your facebook to begin with if you were messing around with her husband."

Logic: You Has It.

Delete your facebook?

Delete your facebook or delete them and make it private.

So you're friends with her?

Quoting pregnant&single19:" Well, I'm single and I plan to do this alone. After it became clear my baby's dad was in a mess of his ... [snip!] ... would be found out. I just want what's best for him and all. Anyhow, I'm at a dillema at what to really respond to with that."

block her!

what a tangled web we weave!.... but seriously if you want your LO. take her off your FB i agree with the other ladies it makes absolutely no sense that she is a friend if you were screwing her husband and you knew it to top it all off. as far as worrying about what he says or thinks,I wouldnt care less he obviously has no regard for anyone but himself seeing as he had an affair with you.

OP, do you plan on telling your baby daddy, or are going to keep it from him?