I don't really know what to do

First of all I don't want anyone to judge me on this. I got pregnant last year and had my baby boy last month. When I got pregnant I had been with 2 different guy within a 1-2 week period. The first didn't use a condom but I did with the second. I never thought of the second one being the dad so I went with the first. At the time I met him he said he was single but still lived with his ex until one of them found another place to live. After about a month I started noticing that there was a possibility that they were still together but I was already pregnant by then, just didn't know it. After I found out I told him and he seemed excited but worried at the same time. It didn't take long to find out that they were together and he didn't want anything to do with me. He kept denying that we had been together (that's what he told her) and told me he would be there for the baby. By the time I was 3-4 months pregnant he kept insinuating that we were together but come to find out later we weren't. Anyway we all 3 met one day and talked about everything that he was lying about. He told me after she left that he was sorry about what he done but never said anything about what was going to happen between us or the baby. Later that night we met again and I had a friend with me. I found out then that didn't want anything to do with me at all. So he left and I didn't talk to him again until I was 6-7 months pregnant. Before this I had still been talking to the other guy and we started dating and got married when I was 8 months pregnant. We knew that there was a slight chance the baby could be his. When the other guy talked to me last me and my husband just decided to tell him that the baby wasn't his and be done with it since he didn't want to be there in the first place. Well he started talking about getting a dna test and going to court. I didn't hear from him after that. Now my son is 1 month old and he found my husband last night and said he wanted a dna test or we were going to court. My husband told him to do what he has to do. Now here's my problem. I don't want to think that he is, but deep in the back of my mind I know my son is not my husbands. Even though I don't want him to have anything to do with him I feel bad because he is his biological father. I just don't know how I can get over how mad I am at him and get past it. Any suggestions?

did your husband sign his bc?

Don't deny your child to know who their father is. It will not hurt to do a DNA test, if it's positive, your husband is still going to be a father figure to him.

I tell you this because I am the child paying for my parent's mistakes...idk my real dad and my mom passed away. You can't take away that right.

stop thinking abotu what you guys want.. and do what is best for your child. Get the DNA test.. and go from there.

Yes he signed the birth certificate. I don't want to keep him from him because I know it's wrong I just can't get passed what he did.

How would that even work, I know my husband is his daddy no matter what, but I would think that would just confuse him if he tells him that he is not his dad.

Quoting Alex'sproudmommy!:" How would that even work, I know my husband is his daddy no matter what, but I would think that would just confuse him if he tells him that he is not his dad."

He is 1 month old, you never have to make your child call your husband dad because (if the other guy is his dad) he would already have one. If your LO grows to love him like a father, he can call him that on his own.

My husband will always be daddy no matter what, that's not going to change. What I can't guarantee is his biological father will be around, so if he tells him he is dad wouldn't that hurt him. I'm just afraid of him hurting him because of all the lies he told me. I don't want my son to be anything like him.