Quoting ♥Mama Constantine:" <blockquote><b>Quoting FaithLovesBaby:</b>" It was probably supposed to be a backhanded ... [snip!] ... out with him even if I wasn't married. Any man whose first words to me is something about my weight, is just not worth my time."Right? It makes no sense. But according to my ex, it really works on some girls. He didn't start that smurf with me until we started having problems, and I tell you it did NOT help.