My BD is talking smurf about how I'm trying to keep our away from him and live a separate life just because we don't live together and now our son is in hesdstart. We don't live together and haven't since last December. Since July we have been on and off in our relationship. I'm still living with my parents and will be until March -after I get income tax check and pay off all my debt. I can start saving and move out. My parent love their grandson and are.helping me out by not charging me to live there. They want what best for me. They don't like BD but would.like us to work things out ideally. Now BD is also living with his parents because he got injured and hasn't.been able.to.work and was ""homeless" from July-now because he doesn't have a new apartment yet. I told BD I think a lot of.our problems are.related to money. I choose to put our son in school close to my house b/c I was driving everyday to take LO to BD. Gas=$60 /week. I got no financial help from BD and have always bought everything for LO. I told him if he wants to see our son he can make the drive that I was doing everyday to see
him...his response ---"I don't have gas money" but yet I'm supposed to keep driving and spending my money cuz BD is broke. He acts like I love living at home.with my parents and don't wanna go but it is only temporary after he kicked me out. I'm so tired of being criticized for living at home to save $$$ when he's doing the same thing. I know hes mad and disappointmented in himself for not being able.to provide for.himself and his kids. I'm just tired of being yelled at for simple things. ....please tell me I'm not the only one dealing with an manipulative BD.
Mine expects me to do the same. Spend all of my money on gas and food for him and then bitch that he doesn't see LO enough. Then expects me to up and move with no notice to another state 12+ hours away with NO money saved. And I'm still in a relationship.
Sounds selfish to me! He's the pot calling the kettle black why is it ok to live off his parents when you are temporarily staying with yours with your son trying to get on your feet what's he doing to get on his tell him shut up and take a look at himself