Trying again

Ok this is my first child, I'm newly married and only four months in to my pregnancy. Find out what we are having soon, how soon do you start buying clothes and cribs and all that stuff?
Also my husband is an amazing man, but I can't help but feel that he's not prepared at all for anything really. I don't think his single financial mentality has changed to married with a child mentality yet. What can I do, because it's starting to weigh on me?

IMO alot of men don't seem prepared for daddyhood.

My dh wasn't but he learned as we went!

most men don't get that mentality till the babys born.

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