Would you?

Would you stay w your baby's dad just because of the fact that they're your baby's dad?

I think it depends. If you mean "stay with" as in try and work out a relationship that you know already will fail; no. but if you can live together in a platonic (sp?) kind of way and both see other people but parent your child I know more than one family that does this and it works well for them.

Don't let guilt get to you...better yet, don't even feel guilty. Things will be perfectly fine, I promise! My situation is a bit different because I was married and left when my son was 3 months old. It turned out perfectly and now I have been with current SO for almost 3 years now and have never been happier

Nope! I sure wouldn't. I'm not going to be unhappy. If he wants to be in the babies life, that's fine and dandy.. He doesn't necessarily have to be in mine as far as that goes.

I would never stay with a man just because of a child. That won't help the child any.

I would never stay with someone just because they were the father of my child.

It's not healthy for you guys or your son.

No, I wouldn't stay with him for that reason and that reason only. I'd rather my LO be in a loving, happy environment with one parent at a time, than be in an environment where their parents are together but can't get along or trust each other.