ease my mind please.

I really didn't know where to post this at, but I need some opinions from you ladies.. I live with my boyfriend who is the father of my unborn child... Before I found out I was pregnant I actually had left hi m, because we have such an unstable relationship.. Since I found out I was pregnant I moved back in trying to make things work for the sake of our child, but just as I expected things are just as bad if not worse because of my crazy hormones and mood swings. Well recently in the past few months the police have showed up for us yelling and being loud.. there was no police report made because obviously there was no abuse just arguing, but do u think because they have a history at our house that when she's born they will keep an eye on us? Or they might do something? I don't plan on us yelling and screaming once she's born because if it does I will immediately be removed from that situation but I am so scared that they will judge me because of the things that happened before she was born. Please help me!

No. They dont care about the yelling and fighting. Even when it's physical between you two, I'm not sure. I don't think there is anything they can do within the boundaries of the law. There would have to be child abuse or neglect.

<blockquote><b>Quoting ♥GarciaMommy:</b>" No. They dont care about the yelling and fighting. Even when it's physical between you two, I'm not sure. ... [snip!] ... I don't think there is anything they can do within the boundaries of the law. There would have to be child abuse or neglect."</blockquote>

I didn't think they could.. The thought of it just scares me so much I don't know what I would do if something like that happened.

No offense, but I'm sure they have more important things to do than sit around watching you and waiting to see if something will happen...

<blockquote><b>Quoting Kinley Nicoles Mommy:</b>" No offense, but I'm sure they have more important things to do than sit around watching you and waiting to see if something will happen..."</blockquote>

Oh trust me,I a hundred percent agree with u! No offense taken!

no and hopefully you'll remove urself & ur baby if the situation doesnt get better

Quoting Shirley Goldsworthy:" I really didn't know where to post this at, but I need some opinions from you ladies.. I live with my ... [snip!] ... situation but I am so scared that they will judge me because of the things that happened before she was born. Please help me!"

Ok first of all, why wouldn't there be yelling and screaming once the baby is born? You think your hormones are crazy now, just wait until the PP period on top of no sleep with a newborn. Even couples without issues argue/yell.

I think you need to think about what's best for you and your baby. Healthy and happy parents are much more important than having both living under the same roof. That just breeds resentment and bigger arguments.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Summerfrost:</b>" Ok first of all, why wouldn't there be yelling and screaming once the baby is born? You think your hormones ... [snip!] ... parents are much more important than having both living under the same roof. That just breeds resentment and bigger arguments."</blockquote>


I agree but I think I will be focused more on her then fighting with him. I'm just in a really hard boat right now and really have no where else to go. I've called a million places for assistance but they all say the
Same thing.. I have to wait until the baby is born, so trust me I have tried to get out of the situation. And if it does happen after the baby is born I will do whatever I can to immediately be removed from the situation because I will not ever put my daughter through that. I'm just really scared because my babys father always threatens me if I do leave he's going to take his life, and I know that is selfish of him.. But I would be horrified if he did something like that.. I know that the well being of my child will be my number one priority though.