Quoting Is that still my name?:" I thought he did...? Oh.. lol JK... different country.... I know.... I know... how do I though? You ... [snip!] ... people telling me to get over Andrew... I KNOW it... but I can't just snap my fingers and do it. I wish I could... trust me."
I met a great guy? what? no I didnt!
First of all I dont believe you 'get over' loosing a child so IMO they are no where near the same, you get over a relationship, loosing a child is something you learn to cope with but NEVER get over.
Stop talking/obsessing about him, keep yourself busy and focus on Lilah