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re: jfc what can I do about this? CPS.

posted 15th Oct
<blockquote><b>Quoting 1st1ontheway:</b>" Sorry you are having to deal with that but IMO its a good thing that they are doing their job. To many ... [snip!] ... To many times I have heard of children slipping threw the cracks. Can't they come look at your place when you are off work?"</blockquote>



I work normal business hours. I'm gone from 5 in the morning until 6 or 6:30 pm.
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I have 2 kids & live in Vantaa, Finland
posted 15th Oct
<blockquote><b>Quoting Proud Mommy of 6:</b>" The have to investigate EVERY call! They will be back out!"</blockquote>




Actually.... They dont investigate EVERY call. They only investigate the calls where its been called in by a police officer or if the caller says they have witnessed the abuse or neglect. A neighbor we had was heard hitting and screaming at his kids... Day after day. I was sick of it. The boy told me that he got hit and they had no food and there were drugs in the house. He was 7. I called and the lady told me that if i didnt see those things with my own eyes then they couldnt investigate. And they didnt.
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I have 6 kids & live in Ohio
posted 15th Oct
<blockquote><b>Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:</b>" IF they were literally just out there then they won't. BD just tried to pull this smurf on me since CPS ... [snip!] ... worker called and said kids are still alive right? I said yeap...Cylus is still going to school right? Yeap. She said okay."</blockquote>


You don't live in my state or have my caseworker. She said in the voicemail she was calling to set up another interview.
quotesmurfs?
I have 2 kids & live in Vantaa, Finland
posted 15th Oct
Quoting 12.21.07¤04.18.13:" I'm the op, I used the account because I think bd is monitoring my topics. I called the caseworker back ... [snip!] ... I'm sure he's reporting anonymously because he knows false CPS reports will smurf him. Though i'm not sure he really cares."
you are the one?! thats bs
quotesmurfs?
I'm due November 27th, have 1 child & live in Parkersburg, West Virginia
posted 15th Oct
<blockquote><b>Quoting ~*Mommy of 5*~:</b>" If i were you i would talk to the case worker that comes out next. Ask them to either give u a supervisor ... [snip!] ... in... Try to get records of that too... Just in case this keeps happening. You might have to find an attorney to help you."</blockquote>

I dint think they're allowed to give out info on the people who call, and he might be reporting anonymously.
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I have 2 kids & live in Vantaa, Finland
posted 15th Oct
I went through the same crap with my ex and after a few times of coming out and finding nothing (as usual) they just called me from then on. I finally had to get an attorney who filed charges on him and then the judge forced CPS to file criminal false reporting charges on him.
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I have 5 kids & 3 angel babies & live in Surprise, Arizona
posted 15th Oct
<blockquote><b>Quoting My Lil' Monsters:</b>" I would seriously ask what more do they want you to do about this. They may suggest an attorney. This is ridiculous tbh."</blockquote>




It really is.

hopefully he lands his ass back in jail soon so this resolves itself  
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I have 2 kids & live in Vantaa, Finland
posted 15th Oct
Quoting 12.21.07¤04.18.13:" <blockquote><b>Quoting P3RvYmCp3rv:</b>" IF they were literally just out there then ... [snip!] ... You don't live in my state or have my caseworker. She said in the voicemail she was calling to set up another interview."
yea then I would ask about what your next step to get this stopped is.
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I have 2 kids & live in Carlyle, Illinois
posted 15th Oct
<blockquote><b>Quoting 12.21.07¤04.18.13:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~*Mommy of 5*~:</b>" If i were you i would talk to the case ... [snip!] ... I dint think they're allowed to give out info on the people who call, and he might be reporting anonymously."</blockquote>



No... They cant give u the names but they can give u the statements that were made.
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I have 6 kids & live in Ohio
posted 15th Oct
Quoting 12.21.07¤04.18.13:" <blockquote><b>Quoting My Lil' Monsters:</b>" I would seriously ask what more do they ... [snip!] ... tbh."</blockquote> It really is. hopefully he lands his ass back in jail soon so this resolves itself  "

Well at least it will stop then...but until then...he is a piece of work. Let us know what info you get when you see the worker again. Soon you will be able to give advice to others on how to deal with this type of stuff!
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I have 5 kids & 3 angel babies & live in Surprise, Arizona
posted 15th Oct
<blockquote><b>Quoting ~*Mommy of 5*~:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting Proud Mommy of 6:</b>" The have to investigate EVERY call! ... [snip!] ... I called and the lady told me that if i didnt see those things with my own eyes then they couldnt investigate. And they didnt."</blockquote>



They will here. I have called CPS in a similar situation and they intervened.

I don't particularly mind it since I have nothing to hide, but I can not take time off work for this bullsmurf if it's going to be a recurring thing.
quotesmurfs?
I have 2 kids & live in Vantaa, Finland
posted 15th Oct
Quoting ~*Mommy of 5*~:" <blockquote><b>Quoting 12.21.07¤04.18.13:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ~*Mommy ... [snip!] ... anonymously."</blockquote> No... They cant give u the names but they can give u the statements that were made."
and cps would have to give up names with a court order id assume
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I'm due November 27th, have 1 child & live in Parkersburg, West Virginia
posted 15th Oct
<blockquote><b>Quoting Sophie's dairy cow:</b>" you are the one?! thats bs"</blockquote>

....what
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I have 2 kids & live in Vantaa, Finland
posted 15th Oct
Quoting 12.21.07¤04.18.13:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Sophie's dairy cow:</b>" you are the one?! thats bs"</blockquote> ....what"

i was saying that oh you are the op? ive seen you around and i couldnt imagine you doing anything bad. and that it sucks this is happening to you. it made sense in my head anyways lol
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I'm due November 27th, have 1 child & live in Parkersburg, West Virginia
posted 16th Oct
<blockquote><b>Quoting Sophie's dairy cow:</b>" i was saying that oh you are the op? ive seen you around and i couldnt imagine you doing anything bad. and that it sucks this is happening to you. it made sense in my head anyways lol"</blockquote>


Oh, thank you then  



I talked to the caseworker and the charges are nothing specific, just "neglect". But I talked to BD's mom and BD has CPS charges for neglect and drug use so he obviously didn't call on himself. We all think it was his father. I will talk to her about stopping the repeated reports at our meeting on thurs.
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I have 2 kids & live in Vantaa, Finland
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