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re: What NOT to say

posted 15th Oct
SAD WHAT PEOPLE SAY AND CANT SPEND THAT SAME AMOUNT OF ENERGY THINKING ABOUT WHAT THEY ARE FIXING TO SAY....I WISH U MANY BLESSINGS WITH YOUR BABY BOY!!!
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I'm due April 8th (a girl), have 1 child & live in Southaven, Mississippi
posted 15th Oct
Quoting Rain (aka Mama):" Yep. My mom's husband. I nearly punched him for it too, and I almost NEVER get angry. "

You have more self restraint than I do. I can't imagine I could hold back to a comment like that.  
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I have 2 kids & 3 angel babies & live in Switzerland
posted 15th Oct
Quoting Dr. Mrs. The Monarch:" Thank you for posting this Cassie! When we told people our daughter was stillborn we directed them ... [snip!] ... a plan" only made everything more raw. They dont have any idea that those words are NOT for them to say or mae judgement calls."

I agree 100%. I'm not religious, but DH and his family are, so I've had a lot of "Jesus took her because.." etc etc, comments directed my way. It never gets easier to hear, either. It's just as painful hearing it now as it was in the hospital.
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I have 2 kids & 3 angel babies & live in Switzerland
posted 15th Oct
Quoting Hanah Jones:" I wish I could've seen this before. It would've Been a BIG help"

Hugs, mama. Keep it book marked because unfortunately, the comments will always be there. <3
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I have 2 kids & 3 angel babies & live in Switzerland
posted 15th Oct
Quoting Lori Ann Barreto-Ojeda:" "

Thank you.
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I have 2 kids & 3 angel babies & live in Switzerland
posted 17th Oct
I am really glad you posted this. I am the QUEEN of saying stupid things when I am trying to be kind. It's like the path from my brain to my mouth is blocked and I just wind up saying something along the lines of the NOT to say list. Yikes.
Thanks for posting this, it really helped me to know if I'm ever in that situation again to know what to say.
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I have 2 kids & live in Devils Lake, North Dakota
posted 17th Oct
Quoting CurlyDimpledLunatic!:" I am really glad you posted this. I am the QUEEN of saying stupid things when I am trying to be kind. ... [snip!] ... list. Yikes. Thanks for posting this, it really helped me to know if I'm ever in that situation again to know what to say. "

No problem. Glad it's doing some good!
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I have 2 kids & 3 angel babies & live in Switzerland
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