Quoting Dr. Mrs. The Monarch:" Thank you for posting this Cassie! When we told people our daughter was stillborn we directed them ... [snip!] ... a plan" only made everything more raw. They dont have any idea that those words are NOT for them to say or mae judgement calls."
I agree 100%. I'm not religious, but DH and his family are, so I've had a lot of "Jesus took her because.." etc etc, comments directed my way. It never gets easier to hear, either. It's just as painful hearing it now as it was in the hospital.