Forums > Suffering & Lossby: Daphne Westcott

one year

posted 15th Oct
So i couldnt get on here yesterday but wish i had
yesterday was my due date and i was all miserable and touchy the entire day
my poor husband had to hear it from me
but i dont know why i have been fine the whole time after the miscarriage
never spoke about it not even cried the day i had the m/c and then yesterday on my due date it was like i just lost it ...
am i going crazy or has anyone else experienced this
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Johannesburg, South Africa
posted 15th Oct
Quoting Daphne Westcott:" So i couldnt get on here yesterday but wish i had yesterday was my due date and i was all miserable ... [snip!] ... the m/c and then yesterday on my due date it was like i just lost it ... am i going crazy or has anyone else experienced this"
i have never had a m/c but i know what you mean,i have been fine till i got to 37-38 weeks and i got so emotional and worse still when i got to 40 weeks and LO hadn't come then frustration kicked in,now 41 weeks 6 days pregnant im still a little frustrated and nervous and so emotional because i know LO will be coming soon whether he likes it or not!!.
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posted 15th Oct
I get really emotional every year on the "anni" day my first miscarriage occured.. and it really sucks even more- because it's the day after my 2nd daughter's birthday *sigh*

So yes- I know how you're feeling. *hugs*
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I have 3 kids & 2 angel babies & live in San Diego, California
posted 15th Oct
Quoting kayla19900:" i have never had a m/c but i know what you mean,i have been fine till i got to 37-38 weeks and i got ... [snip!] ... im still a little frustrated and nervous and so emotional because i know LO will be coming soon whether he likes it or not!!."

No.. that is nothing like what the OP is feeling- just sayin'..  
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I have 3 kids & 2 angel babies & live in San Diego, California
posted 15th Oct
At 13 wks i m/c i was a wreck for like a weeks  my partner did not want to hear anything of it 
when my due day rolled around i guess i was ok maybe cos id let it all out(cried a smurfload) after my m/c. time will pass and it will get better.
my little bubba i lost is buried in a special place at my home so he or she will always be close no matter what.
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Australia
posted 15th Oct
ya i dont know when i first had the m/c i was very calm while it was all happening and now im thinking lifes just soo unfair i could be holding two little ones now id couldve been a girl or a boy and ill just never know
and i get so pissed at people when they say yes but the time wasnt right for you or something like that ... yes maybe it wasnt but that doesnt make it better for me .
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I have 1 child & 1 angel baby & live in Johannesburg, South Africa
posted 15th Oct
I had most of my M/Cs when I was young.

The levity of them didn't really hit me until later when I realized that they could have been babies. Like, obviously, duh, if they'd made it they would have been babies, but I REALIZED it and it hit me so hard. The third one in particular hit me hard because I was a little older and it bothered me when I was sitting around one day a year later and thought "Oh my God. There would be a baby here if something wasn't wrong with me.."

I think any traumatic event usually comes back stronger later.

I'm so sorry for your loss momma.
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I have 1 child & 2 angel babies & live in Blytheville, Arkansas
posted 15th Oct

I do agree with you on how people think they know what to say...there really is nothing anyone can say that is of comfort when a mother experiences a miscarriage or in my case an ectopic pregnancy, Im approching my 1 year since it happened and Im honestly dreading it, my baby would have been 4 months old

Quoting Daphne Westcott:" ya i dont know when i first had the m/c i was very calm while it was all happening and now im thinking ... [snip!] ... say yes but the time wasnt right for you or something like that ... yes maybe it wasnt but that doesnt make it better for me ."
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