re: Whaddyou do when you're not getting LAID enough?

<blockquote><b>Quoting KNZ.:</b>" I seriously WISH i wasn't like this! cos i spend 99.9% of my time sexually frustrated   i really want to get inside the head of someone less sex-crazy, just so i can understannnnd!"</blockquote>



Have you talked to him about your needs?

Quoting boobook:" <blockquote><b>Quoting KNZ.:</b>" I seriously WISH i wasn't like this! cos i spend ... [snip!] ... head of someone less sex-crazy, just so i can understannnnd!"</blockquote> Have you talked to him about your needs?"

OH, he KNOWS. haha,
after we have sex, he'll be like, "well, that'll hold you off for the next 10 minutes". he knoooowssss. hahah

<blockquote><b>Quoting KNZ.:</b>" OH, he KNOWS. haha, after we have sex, he'll be like, "well, that'll hold you off for the next 10 minutes". he knoooowssss. hahah"</blockquote>




Booooooo!!!

That's us! We always joke I'm the man in the relationship when it comes to sex. It makes me sad. lol

Quoting breezy l0ve ♥:" That's us! We always joke I'm the man in the relationship when it comes to sex. It makes me sad. lol"

you feel my pain then!

<blockquote><b>Quoting KNZ.:</b>" you feel my pain then!"</blockquote>


Sadly. This sucks! lol... Like you said, it's more than just sex to me too. It helps me chill out. I NEEEEED it ! lol

Quoting breezy l0ve ♥:" <blockquote><b>Quoting KNZ.:</b>" you feel my pain then!"</blockquote> Sadly. ... [snip!] ... Sadly. This sucks! lol... Like you said, it's more than just sex to me too. It helps me chill out. I NEEEEED it ! lol"

haha i'm so glad i'm not alone on this. well, not glad that you also deal with it   but you know what i mean.  
hopefully something switches off and our dudes get their smu*f together so we can get some    

Dude's nuts if he's able to keep his hands off you  

Has he tried a libido stimulator? Or maybe you try a suppressant?

Quoting 12.21.07¤04.18.13:" Dude's nuts if he's able to keep his hands off you   Has he tried a libido simulator? Or maybe you try a suppressant?"

Please come here and tell him that!   (and thank ya )
and he hasn't, and i didn't even know a libido suppressant existed   how sad! hahah, off too google.  

I know what you mean sex keeps me sane! we used to have the same sex drive but when I had my daughter I never wanted it likeI could go without it and he used to want it every night.. I turned him down most of the time and after that now he only really wants it 1-2 a week and now my hormones are back to normal and I would be happy if he was up to it atleast once every other day but noooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!

<blockquote><b>Quoting KNZ.:</b>" Please come here and tell him that!   (and thank ya ) and he hasn't, and i didn't even know a libido suppressant existed   how sad! hahah, off too google.  "</blockquote>



Chasteberry is supposed to help, but i'm not sure if it's safe for pregnancy.

Quoting Crazy one:" I know what you mean sex keeps me sane! we used to have the same sex drive but when I had my daughter ... [snip!] ... are back to normal and I would be happy if he was up to it atleast once every other day but noooooooooooooooooooooooooooo!"

oh man, i WISH being pregnant made me less sex-crazy! i'm already just, a beast, haha, and pregnancy makes it worse! i could deal with every other day! better than what we've got goin' on now  

YES.

Granted, I haven't had sex for 5 months and I won't be having it for another 5 or so. Thank god my good friend is a pure romance consultant.  

But seriously, it's ALWAYS been an issue. Like, Seth is hands down the greatest in bed I've ever been with but he literally could do it once a month and be fine.   Whereas I could do it 3x a day and still be up for more, lmao. It's the only reason I enjoy him leaving for periods of time, like even when he's gone for only a couple of days, for whatever reason, he'll come back just ready to go.   But then after a couple weeks it slows down.

So, I'm hoping after this he'll be steady for a year, at least. LOL.

Quoting 12.21.07¤04.18.13:" <blockquote><b>Quoting KNZ.:</b>" Please come here and tell him that!   (and ... [snip!] ... hahah, off too google.  "</blockquote> Chasteberry is supposed to help, but i'm not sure if it's safe for pregnancy."

oh good point. haha, dammit.

Quoting aℓyssa™:" YES. Granted, I haven't had sex for 5 months and I won't be having it for another 5 or so. Thank god ... [snip!] ... go.   But then after a couple weeks it slows down. So, I'm hoping after this he'll be steady for a year, at least. LOL. "

hahah i'll cross my fingers for you!!!
i just don't get iiiiiit. cos i've never been in this situation before! it's so frustrating!