Quoting 12.21.07¤04.18.13:" <blockquote><b>Quoting *Amo a Mis Nenas*:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting ... [snip!] ... long because of "love". Even now he gives me the butterflies like no one else, but that doesn't mean I should be with him "
^she said. You know what.. You can feel that strongly about someone and it does NOT mean you should be with them. I feel like I might die without BD & when I look at him I just want to love and hug him but he treats me like smurf with this messy off/on stuff and that is how I know we should not be together.
Believe me it hurts OP but the situation you describe is so unhealthy. Like someone else said it is addictive, dependent, clingy among other things and those are not love. Respect
is not walking away because things are tough. Damn.. you're original post is the mindstate I would love to be in to justify sticking around and hurting my childs emotional health .. but because I have a daughter I just can't put her through it.
I am 20 and he is 25, I'm not sure if thats considered "young" love like yours but I guess it just proves how stupid a man can be at even that age to convince you that what he is giving you is "true" love. Believe me, he says it to me too. He tells me he will never give up on me, he loves me so much/will never be with another girl but everything he does contradicts what he says - and I would give SOOO many things to believe him and make excuses for why he is giving me less than I deserve *right now*.
It's sad... it sucks.. but going back to him just proves to him you don't deserve better.