My fiance wont sleep with me!!! and being Pregnant makes me
posted 14th Oct
im 27 weeks pregnant and i feel really Ho*ny all the time but my fiance wont sleep with me because he keeps saying that he feels that he will hurt the baby he was like this on my last pregnancy but its worse this time he has even heard the midwife say its fine to have sex while pregnant and its making me feel he don't like me in that way and its starting to upset me, its sounds really silly i know but i don't know how to make him understand that. help me please xx
quoteposted 14th Oct
Give him some time....invest in a dildo lol.
quoteposted 14th Oct
<blockquote><b>Quoting Leah_92:</b>" im 27 weeks pregnant and i feel really Ho*ny all the time but my fiance wont sleep with me because he ... [snip!] ... its starting to upset me, its sounds really silly i know but i don't know how to make him understand that. help me please xx"</blockquote>
How about you understand him? He is likely nervous or has another issue with it. Perhaps rather than focusing on the surface and your needs, you can dig deeper and figure out what his real issue is.
quoteposted 14th Oct
Quoting Not tellin:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Leah_92:</b>" im 27 weeks pregnant and i feel really Ho*ny all ... [snip!] ... with it. Perhaps rather than focusing on the surface and your needs, you can dig deeper and figure out what his real issue is."
I have 2 kids & 3 angel babies & live in
Texasposted 14th Oct
yeah thats what im trying to say, i try to talk to him about it but he just laughs it off, hes ok with me doing things for him, but wont even just play.
quoteposted 14th Oct
Or you could just tie him to the bed and have your way with him, im mean that worked for me with our first.
quoteposted 14th Oct
<blockquote><b>Quoting Leah_92:</b>" yeah thats what im trying to say, i try to talk to him about it but he just laughs it off, hes ok with me doing things for him, but wont even just play."</blockquote>
My husband was nervous because I have a high mc rate.
Don't take this personal but, have you asked him if it is a turn off or fear?
quoteposted 14th Oct
Some guys just don't like pregnant sex. Of course you are fine with it because you have the baby inside of you all the time so you know everything is ok, but that is the closest he will be. It's not anything against you, he obviously doesn't have a problem with regular sex, since you're pregnant and all, but it is different when you are pregnant.
quoteposted 14th Oct
nope, but i will do now thank you x
quoteposted 14th Oct
Quoting White Chocolate Milk:" Some guys just don't like pregnant sex. Of course you are fine with it because you have the baby inside ... [snip!] ... he obviously doesn't have a problem with regular sex, since you're pregnant and all, but it is different when you are pregnant."
true thank you
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