re: Second Birth

Quoting Gor-Jess!:" You will know...you will feel this overwhelming pressure in your bum. And you will feel tightening from ... [snip!] ... feel tightening from the contractions but they dont hurt. Its nice. It was very painful doing it naturally. I don't like pain. "

My first wasn't overly painful because it was really quick the contractions hurt the most I think if the pain gets so bad I'll have it but I just don't want it to be too late by the time I decide my partner doesn't want me to have it

My first was a painful 37 hours! Hoping my second is much much better :/

Quoting Kirsten Elysse:" My first was a painful 37 hours! Hoping my second is much much better :/"

Good luck with your second I hope mine was as easy as my first

My second labor was faster then my first. My first was 10 1/2 hours start to finish and my second was 4 hours start to finish. My third on the other hand was much longer then the other two. Over all it was 29 hours with 9 hours of active labor and 2-3 of hard labor. A close friend of mine had a 11 hour labor with her first a 2 hour labor with her second a 10 hour labor with her third and a 6 hour labor with her fourth. It all just depends.

Quoting Emma+Abby+Logansmommy:" My second labor was faster then my first. My first was 10 1/2 hours start to finish and my second was ... [snip!] ... first a 2 hour labor with her second a 10 hour labor with her third and a 6 hour labor with her fourth. It all just depends. "

More and more I'm really starting to not want to go into labour

Quoting Alyssa'sMummy:" More and more I'm really starting to not want to go into labour"

It really wasn't that bad. With my second it was really intense but it went really fast and very smooth. Id have that labor any day. With my third I wasn't in hard labor but maybe 2-3 hours so it was bearable. I always tell myself Ill deal with it when I'm in labor and when I'm in labor i don't think about it so it works out great.

Quoting Emma+Abby+Logansmommy:" It really wasn't that bad. With my second it was really intense but it went really fast and very smooth. ... [snip!] ... I always tell myself Ill deal with it when I'm in labor and when I'm in labor i don't think about it so it works out great. "

Its getting closer and closer I hope it goes smoothly its not the time I'm in labour I'm bothered about its more the pain I think I don't even know maybe its all in my head that I'm worrying I wasn't this worried when I had my daughter