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Quoting JazziRay Carrier:" This was my second attempt at a realationship.. I just feel like, if this is really it.. i feel ... [snip!] ... hes not gone any longer then he has to be.. and he really does aim to come back..how am i supposed to trust him from then on.."

I would not trust anything he has to say. It is FINE to hate him. I would hate him. I hate my ex for leaving me for his now wife and marrying her and everything.

So what your friends say. Tell them the truth about it. So what if it your second time doing a relationship. Do you know how manytimes I have tried being a in a relationship after my oldest sons father? It takes more than a few tries at a relationship.

Quoting *Turtles*:" First of all, who gives a damn what others think. If he is being legit then you need to accept it and ... [snip!] ... sea, so don't think you will never find someone. It may take years, but that's okay. Work on yourself and provide for your LO."

Part of me wants to chase after him.. Live up there again..and idk..i know its not something i can act on becasue i have her.. and thats not fair to her to keep up rooting her..

Quoting JazziRay Carrier:" Part of me wants to chase after him.. Live up there again..and idk..i know its not something i can act on becasue i have her.. and thats not fair to her to keep up rooting her.."

He doesn't want to be with you and wants time to himself. Let him be.

Quoting *Turtles*:" He doesn't want to be with you and wants time to himself. Let him be."

So what i just let him go.. wait for him to call me, or text me..before i try to talk about anything...do i give him some room and wait it out a few months and attempt to make contact.. i dont know how to do this..

Quoting JazziRay Carrier:" So what i just let him go.. wait for him to call me, or text me..before i try to talk about anything...do ... [snip!] ... anything...do i give him some room and wait it out a few months and attempt to make contact.. i dont know how to do this.."

Dont do anything. Just file for child support. I know it sucks.

Quoting JazziRay Carrier:" So what i just let him go.. wait for him to call me, or text me..before i try to talk about anything...do ... [snip!] ... anything...do i give him some room and wait it out a few months and attempt to make contact.. i dont know how to do this.."

Don't do anything. File for CS.

My SO just left me and our LO. Let him go, and like everyone is saying get him for CS! I am getting it :p