Quoting SmashleynSmallyPants:" I can totally relate to alot of the things you are going through. I am engaged to an alcoholic and I ... [snip!] ... hope you check it out, even try a few different meetings until you find one that "fits"- its amazing and can be life changing. "
Quoting 1inpink2inblue:" Hey I haven't seen you in a while. I see you had your baby! Congrats!!!"
Quoting thisunrest:" <blockquote><b>Quoting BC Mama:</b>" I have to leave my boyfriend. He told me he was ... [snip!] ... OR, change the locks when your boyfriend is out doing what he does, and keep him locked out. Let him see how serious you are !"
Quoting BC Mama:" Thanks for the advise, I'm going to check out a meeting this tuesday."
Quoting Ellena's mommy:" I know I will probably get smurf for this but oh well... I do not believe in divorce unless its under ... [snip!] ... this. EDIT: I just realized he is your boyfriend, but he is the father of your children and I still stand by what I said ^^^^"
Quoting thisunrest:" <blockquote><b>Quoting BC Mama:</b>" I have to leave my boyfriend. He told me he was ... [snip!] ... OR, change the locks when your boyfriend is out doing what he does, and keep him locked out. Let him see how serious you are !"His parents don't care, his dads a major alcoholic and so is his gf.. His stepmom delt with it for 20 years and just recently left him and his biological mother was never really in the picture. He would be furious if I changed the locks since its his house. I locked my bedroom door and he had to sleep on the couch. And I was ready to go to his dads last night but my stroller was in my car that he took and it was pouring down rain lastnight. He's out of town for the week but I really want him to know how serious I am. This smurf is getting old.
Quoting SmashleynSmallyPants:" If he's addicted to alcohol all that will do it create more chaos and stress for her. He's an addict ... [snip!] ... He's an addict he will chose the bottle if he is forced into an ultimatum- whether he loves his family or not. He is sick. "
Quoting BC Mama:" this is spot on "