re: Finally giving up

Quoting Peyton'sMommy♥:" Judge Judy thinks you are stupid."

 

Quoting she's here 11/5/10:" I'm afraid of that too, but he's military to he's gone a lot! I'm just tired of it! It's the same thing ... [snip!] ... like wtf did I do now! He got mad at me cuz I'm leaving in two weeks! But I don't care! In doing what's best for me an my kids"

He got mad at you because you told him you're leaving? Where are you going? Like leaving as in moving out and taking your kids? I can see why he'd be mad, he doesn't want his kids being taken away but the other behavior isn't okay.

Quoting Nyla&Carina's Mommy:" Right cause everything is perfect and should be in marriage at any given time no matter what. and when it isnt u should just leave . ok."

My marriage is all sorts of smurfed up but my husband hasn't ever verbally abused me...

Quoting Nyla&Carina's Mommy:" theres two sides to a story. his side, her side and the truth and until you know both dont throw accusatios around. she never said shes being abused why u puttin words in her mouth"

How do you know her side isn't the truth?

Quoting Nyla&Carina's Mommy:" But it could better as well. Life is hard, marriage is even harder."

I do agree there.

Quoting Nyla&Carina's Mommy:" But it could better as well. Life is hard, marriage is even harder."

It doesnt have to be though.

Quoting Nyla&Carina's Mommy:" damn you should be an author and write a book on her  "

Lets hope your ignorant ass doesnt get into an abusive relationship then come here begging for help .Go be a worthless twat somewhere else youve been nominated

OP, I'm sorry its come to this but you are making the best decision. No one should have to endure any kind of abuse. I wish you the best.

Quoting ♡Sarah♡ + 2:" OP, I'm sorry its come to this but you are making the best decision. No one should have to endure any kind of abuse. I wish you the best."

could not agree more

I've never read such inexperienced, immature and irresponsible comments in all my life. Advising a woman to stay in a abusive relationship, how absolutely disgusting! You state Marriage is hard and people shouldn't just walk away well I've been with my Husband 9 years and let me tell you it isn't always easy and life isn't a bed of roses but I have never ever once experienced any type of abuse from him and if I did I certainly wouldn't stay. There is a big big big difference between hard times in a Marriage and abuse in a Marriage!!!!!! Having the cheek to tell other people on here they are making themselves look stupid, the only person on this topic that looks stupid is you. The fact you say you condone verbal abuse but not physical also shows your lack of knowledge on this particular subject also and makes you kook even more ridiculous. You start of by telling a woman to stay in a abusive relationship, subjecting her children to this mental and emotional damage also then when people ask you simple questions you cannot even conduct yourself in the conversation, get real.


To the OP you are doing the right thing, be strong and make use of the support people offer. Good luck to you in these times.

Quoting Nyla&Carina's Mommy:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Moody Momma:</b>" Take your kids and run! They don't need brought ... [snip!] ... . I think they can work it through she just needs to get to the root of his smurf behavior . There's two sides to every story"

I have been in an abusive relationship. want to take a guess how it started? the name calling and telling me I was smurf. If he won't do anything about it then why she should stay?