re: Finally giving up

Quoting Carla DiFiore:" We all have opnions and its upto her on what she wants to do. She one in end who has decide whats best ... [snip!] ... And she has to decide what she going do in the end. Best of luck to you and hope whatever you decide to do, it works out. "

i totally agree with you and with that said, ill leave it at that.
cause thats all you can do.

Quoting Nyla&Carina's Mommy:" But it could better as well. Life is hard, marriage is even harder."

You just need to shut your trap.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Nyla&Carina's Mommy:</b>" theres two sides to a story. his side, her side and the truth and until you know both dont throw accusatios around. she never said shes being abused why u puttin words in her mouth"</blockquote>



You obviously didn't read the OP.


"He criticizes everything I do! The way I take care of our kids he talks smurf about
I clean an he bitches about that too! An then he talks smurf to me an puts me town all the time! An in a very sensitive person I take things to heart!"


"I don't want my kids to think its ok for them to talk the way he does to me !"


THAT is verbal abuse.

Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" You just need to shut your trap. "

Real mature.
 

<blockquote><b>Quoting Nyla&Carina's Mommy:</b>" But it could better as well. Life is hard, marriage is even harder."</blockquote>




Oh stfu. ABUSIVE is not okay. Period.

Quoting Chuck Finley.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Nyla&Carina's Mommy:</b>" theres two sides to a story. his ... [snip!] ... things to heart!" "I don't want my kids to think its ok for them to talk the way he does to me !" THAT is verbal abuse."

Agreed...

I can go back 5 and a half years and give you posts of when my ex started his "douche" thing on me.. and I didnt call it verbal abuse.

Quoting Chuck Finley.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Nyla&Carina's Mommy:</b>" theres two sides to a story. his ... [snip!] ... things to heart!" "I don't want my kids to think its ok for them to talk the way he does to me !" THAT is verbal abuse."

Sure thing 

Quoting Nyla&Carina's Mommy:" Real mature.  "

Ok you havent answered me. Have you been in an abusive relationship?

<blockquote><b>Quoting Nyla&Carina's Mommy:</b>" Real mature.  "</blockquote>




You are a smurf telling someone to stay in an abusive relationship. GTFO.

Quoting Chuck Finley.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Nyla&Carina's Mommy:</b>" But it could better as well. Life is hard, marriage is even harder."</blockquote> Oh stfu. ABUSIVE is not okay. Period."

says the one telling ppl to stfu n shut their trap yet you say verbal abuse is soooo bad. yeah, your a real unhypocritical person 

<blockquote><b>Quoting Nyla&Carina's Mommy:</b>" says the one telling ppl to stfu n shut their trap yet you say verbal abuse is soooo bad. yeah, your a real unhypocritical person "</blockquote>




lmfao. Please.

Quoting Chuck Finley.:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Nyla&Carina's Mommy:</b>" Real mature.  "</blockquote> You are a smurf telling someone to stay in an abusive relationship. GTFO."

ooo the verbal abuse continues..

why she should take advice from you when you behave just like her hubby with ur abusive words

Quoting Nyla&Carina's Mommy:" ooo the verbal abuse continues.. why she should take advice from you when you behave just like her hubby with ur abusive words"

Ok. What she is saying is not verbal abuse. And you have not answered my question.. so Im going to go with no you have not been in an abusive relationship.

i get a kick out of you people lol.

Quoting Yurvette [♥]:" Ok. What she is saying is not verbal abuse. And you have not answered my question.. so Im going to go with no you have not been in an abusive relationship. "

oh its not verbal huh??

lmaoooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo