Quoting Rayne Simpson:" i did say that certain things to make a difference, but in the end we all end up going through the same ... [snip!] ... if you think i'm wrong, then good for you, but i would like it if you didn't be-little me. because that's how i feel right now."Girl i know exactly how you feel. im almost 18 years old im halfway through my pregnancy almost. i had a life like you. i lived with my fiance was smoking so much pot a day that i was literally high 24/7. i didnt drink though. but i was literally going no where either. i found out i was pregnant at about 5 weeks. i went back to school like you and am trying to get a job to support myself. my fiance is still in the picture and he has started bettering himself for our child. Do whats best for you and your child no matter what. I also hate how i get the same old lectures that my life is ruined. just lean on the support of your family. they are all you need and dont let anyone bring you down. if you need someone to talk to just message me! and also kristie is a great person to talk to too (:! just remember your life isn't ruined its just changing and change is good.