My teenager

My 17 year old daughter has asked me if her boyfriend could move in with her. her boyfriend is 21. I gave my daughter a house(house my ex husband and I had payed off and rented out, which i have now rented it to my daughter) so her and her kids didn't have to be all crammed into my house. She has 3 kids of her own she has a 2 year old and 2 week old twins and I'm not sure if I should tell her she can have him move in or not. I love her and I just wanna do what is right, but i don't really know which one is right thing to do.

Quoting Cheryl J.:" My 17 year old daughter has asked me if her boyfriend could move in with her. her boyfriend is 21. I ... [snip!] ... have him move in or not. I love her and I just wanna do what is right, but i don't really know which one is right thing to do. "

so you care if her bf moves in after she has 3 kids presumably by this guy? snorts

If your 17 year old daughter has three kids and doesn't live in your house and pays rent, why are you concerned about "allowing" her boyfriend to move in with her?

If you are "renting" it to her and she is paying then sure why not.

wow..I really don't know what to say.. but she already has 3 kids.. so what is the harm in him moving in.. if he is going to help her

I don't see why you would tell her no, she has his children and doesn't live with you unless you are concerned about how he will treat the property or something.

I dont see why you shouldnt allow it, its her BF and she already has 3 children.

Quoting May ♥:" If you are "renting" it to her and she is paying then sure why not."

!this.

He isn't the father of her kids. She just asked me if he could, and her father told me I'd be a horrible mother if I let her boyfriend move in with her, and so are other family members. that's why I'm questioning myself. But if i wasn't questioning myself I would have already told her yes

Is this real or just someone trolling?

Quoting Cheryl J.:" He isn't the father of her kids. She just asked me if he could, and her father told me I'd be a horrible ... [snip!] ... other family members. that's why I'm questioning myself. But if i wasn't questioning myself I would have already told her yes"

Why would it be horrible for him to move in with her?

Quoting Cheryl J.:" He isn't the father of her kids. She just asked me if he could, and her father told me I'd be a horrible ... [snip!] ... other family members. that's why I'm questioning myself. But if i wasn't questioning myself I would have already told her yes"

How far apart are her children? When did she have her first?

Quoting Sylas' Mommy:" Is this real or just someone trolling?"

real.

Quoting Cheryl J.:" He isn't the father of her kids. She just asked me if he could, and her father told me I'd be a horrible ... [snip!] ... other family members. that's why I'm questioning myself. But if i wasn't questioning myself I would have already told her yes"

Why exactly would that make you a horrible mother?

Quoting Devil's Advocate:" How far apart are her children? When did she have her first?"

She had her first in June 2010 and she had her twins in September 2012