Quoting Mami Ana:" Personally I would want my children to love the person their father remarries and vice versa. It sounds ... [snip!] ... take care of them as her own and my children to see her a another parent, person of authority to love and respect and trust."
Quoting Jessica Fili:" wow sum people got no sympathy.. the guy sounds like a man whore already finding someone while hes got ... [snip!] ... tounge and hope she isnt an ass to your child and doesnt undermine you...good luck and if you wanna talk further message me..."
Quoting Kimber-Lily:" How is he an smurf for proposing on a happy day of his life?... I don't have to deal with the step mom thing, but I probably wouldn't be easy to handle so I have no advice for you. lol"
Quoting Kimber-Lily:" It is wrong for him to move on... why? "
Quoting Katie Lomax:" well first of all him proposing on the same day another woman gave birth to his child is just a rude ... [snip!] ... its not important (when its fact breastfeeding is the best thing for a baby) and there is much more. he is an smurf trust me"
Quoting Katie Lomax:" well first of all him proposing on the same day another woman gave birth to his child is just a rude ... [snip!] ... its not important (when its fact breastfeeding is the best thing for a baby) and there is much more. he is an smurf trust me"If he is that much of a jerk... He may not be the best father and she may be good to have around she might make sure your son is taken care of when his father is supposed to be taking care of him, whether that means she is telling him to step up or she helps out....... It will be hard, try to keep a cool head, your child will know who his mother is. Oh and don't take things too personally.. It will all turn out like it is supposed to.
Quoting Mother of Hayward.:" Why are you afraid of that? I can't really give you advice. I am a stepmother to a wonderful, intelligent, ... [snip!] ... NOT his mother. If they really love each other, they're going to get married, and it's something you'll just have to deal with."
Quoting Mother of Hayward.:" But your child having a stepmom has nothing to do with that. And so what if he wants his child overnight? They do make breast pumps, ya know. Whether you like it or not, he is that child's father."