re: future stepmom?

Quoting Mrs cree:" How well do you really trust someone around your kids you have known less than a year with your kids ... [snip!] ... I certainly wouldn't look at all the horrific things that happen from parents boyfriends girlfriends fiancées whatever"

do you have children?

Quoting Mami Ana:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Katie Lomax:</b>" Trust me i AM over him. I wouldnt get back ... [snip!] ... his life he can do as he pleases, including proposing to someone else on the day his son is born. Did he come see his son?"

well we can agree to disagree. I think its rude for someone to proopose to their gf on the same day that someone else has their baby. he did come to the hospital but he barely sees his son anymore. he is 2months old and he has maybe seen him 8 times, he does not come around

<blockquote><b>Quoting Katie Lomax:</b>" well we can agree to disagree. I think its rude for someone to proopose to their gf on the same day ... [snip!] ... the hospital but he barely sees his son anymore. he is 2months old and he has maybe seen him 8 times, he does not come around"</blockquote>




Then put your big girl panties on and either let it go or take him to court. If he's not being a good dad then cut your losses and walk away. How about you worry more about the fact that he doesn't have a good father figure before worrying about his fiancé.

Quoting Katie Lomax:" well we can agree to disagree. I think its rude for someone to proopose to their gf on the same day ... [snip!] ... the hospital but he barely sees his son anymore. he is 2months old and he has maybe seen him 8 times, he does not come around"

since hes not on the birth certificate and you have put so many stipulations on him i wouldnt show up either

Quoting Mami Ana:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Katie Lomax:</b>" well we can agree to disagree. I think its ... [snip!] ... walk away. How about you worry more about the fact that he doesn't have a good father figure before worrying about his fiancé."

this whole thing was asking for ADVICE on how to deal with it since im having a hard time, and yes ive been trying to get him to come see his son and step up and everything that is my number 1 concern. but none the less i am still having a hard time thinking of the stepmother role and such. all i was asking was for advice if another woman had trouble with that problem also not asking for everyone to argue with me this whole time.

Quoting Katie Lomax:" this whole thing was asking for ADVICE on how to deal with it since im having a hard time, and yes ... [snip!] ... was for advice if another woman had trouble with that problem also not asking for everyone to argue with me this whole time."

suck it up buttercup

lmao really your going to attempt to mod something not against the rules suck it up child put on your big girl panties and welcome to the real world

Quoting º×ß¡±©µ×º:" lmao really your going to attempt to mod something not against the rules suck it up child put on your big girl panties and welcome to the real world "

yes because im sick and tired of you and your rude remarks.

Quoting Katie Lomax:" yes because im sick and tired of you and your rude remarks. "

boo smurfing hoo go to face book if you want people to hold you andtell you everything will be ok

Quoting Katie Lomax:" yes because im sick and tired of you and your rude remarks. "

She's not being rude.   Your ex is allowed to move on, and he is allowed to propose on a happy moment of his life. And besides, HIS actions have nothing to do with the new fiance. You sound petty and immature, honestly. You're holding a grudge against a woman who is going to be a stepmother to your child... I'd be being nice to her, honestly, since she's going to be around my child.

Like i said before since hes NOT on the birth certificate he doesnt HAVE to do anything

Quoting ☾BizzyBee♉:" She's not being rude.   Your ex is allowed to move on, and he is allowed to propose on a happy moment ... [snip!] ... who is going to be a stepmother to your child... I'd be being nice to her, honestly, since she's going to be around my child. "

 
I mean damn, she acts like he's not suppose to move on and be happy. I mean it's crazy to me that she finds him proposing on his birth day rude...okay well you say you left him and don't give a smurf about him. Right.  

<blockquote><b>Quoting Katie Lomax:</b>" i was just explaining why he's an smurf. and pumping is not the same and nursing, right now i cant go that long without nursing and i cant just pump and pump. that is just how i feel"</blockquote>




You don't have too
Tell the court you're nursing and they won't do overnights for months

And I dot want my kids ever thinking of another woman as mom
Ever

<blockquote><b>Quoting º×ß¡±©µ×º:</b>" if he marries the girl why not if she treats the child right "</blockquote>




Because she isn't mom???
I could only ever see that As logical if that parent were dead or totally uninvolved

<blockquote><b>Quoting Goodnight Moon, goodnight:</b>" <blockquote><b>Quoting º×ß¡±©µ×º:</b>" if he marries the girl why not if she treats ... [snip!] ... Because she isn't mom??? I could only ever see that As logical if that parent were dead or totally uninvolved"</blockquote>




I have a step dad and a bio dad. Both of them are my "daddy". I love them both. How is that wrong and why wouldn't you want that if you aren't with the father of your child?