Quoting Katie Lomax:" i can see your point but i do not want my son to think of another woman as a mom. of course i want ... [snip!] ... so i was asking for advice on how to deal with it not to be told im being petty for wanting to be the only mom for my son. "best advice dontbe petty towards his fiance be cordial it makes dealing with the step mother figure in your childs life alot easier
Quoting Katie Lomax:" well first of all him proposing on the same day another woman gave birth to his child is just a rude ... [snip!] ... its not important (when its fact breastfeeding is the best thing for a baby) and there is much more. he is an smurf trust me"
Quoting Mrs cree:" Maybe she was feeling insecure that he would go back with you after baby was born but anyway that is ... [snip!] ... times to see how she is with your baby but your baby should not call that women mom and your ex should not encourage it either"
Quoting Mrs cree:" If he marries the girl but there should be short introductions to the women especially when your child ... [snip!] ... the child how long has he known this women they couldn't have been together long if she just had his child eight weeks ago"he left her in the begining of the pregnancy so it could have been a little bit more then what everyone is thinking
Quoting Mrs cree:" Well it's defiantly less than a year"and?
Quoting Mami Ana:" Personally I would want my children to love the person their father remarries and vice versa. It sounds ... [snip!] ... take care of them as her own and my children to see her a another parent, person of authority to love and respect and trust."
Quoting Mami Ana:" It's only rude because you are still not over him, clearly you haven't let go. It only taints his birth ... [snip!] ... there was some rule book that said you can't propose to anyone on the day of this birth or other important dates in his life."
Quoting Mrs cree:" Well it's defiantly less than a year"