No blood after my first time. I broke my own hymen years before I ever got sexual with another person lol

I wasn't a true virgin (sexual abuse) and I didn't bleed after ...

I didn't bleed. And had never had anything up there before.

True virgin. Just an avid equestrian.  

This is going to be really random...but how do you know if your hymen is even broken?

I have endo, so sex hurts every single time I have it. I've never bled, but I have had some crazy rough sex and I've had sex a few times with what would be considered an above-average penis. I really can't think of feeling something and being like "Oh, that must have been my hymen."

Quoting Chroma Hex [+1]:" This is going to be really random...but how do you know if your hymen is even broken? I have endo, so ... [snip!] ... considered an above-average penis. I really can't think of feeling something and being like "Oh, that must have been my hymen.""

I think it's kind of far up there. I honestly don't know though. I do know that I definitely felt it break and it hurt really smurfing bad haha

I didn't bleed when my lost my virginity and I didn't bleed when I was fingered before then. I never bled during sex until I was 17 and had sex plenty of times before.

I didn't bleed and I was a "true" virgin.

I had bright red spotting after the first time. My hymen was gone though right before I got my first period.

I spotted the first time I had sex, but it wasn't much. I was 18 when I first had sex although I'd done other stuff before that, the doctor said the younger you are the more you tend to bleed bc your hymen kinda "wears out" throughout the years.

First of all, I don't like the term "true" virgin. It bugs me. A lot. It diminishes the idea that a woman can have been raped, but still consider herself a virgin. It would have been MUCH better IMO to ask something like "the first time you had consensual sex, did you bleed? Had you ever been abused or injured before that?" I just find the term harsh. "Sorry little 9 year old, but you're not a "true" virgin anymore because you were raped."

To answer your question, no, I did not bleed. Yes, I'd been raped before that point.

I was a true virgin and I bled....a lot!! Almost like a period and it lasted a couple days. He probably broke my hymen and tore me a little too.

I bled a lot and it lasted nearly a whole day. I was 13 so maybe that's why? I had no history of sexual abuse or assault.

<blockquote><b>Quoting she nan igans:</b>" First of all, I don't like the term "true" virgin. It bugs me. A lot. It diminishes the idea that a woman ... [snip!] ... virgin anymore because you were raped." To answer your question, no, I did not bleed. Yes, I'd been raped before that point."</blockquote>

I definitely agree. Rubbed me a bit wrong, too..

I was sexually abused and I did not bleed during my first consensual encounter.. It hurt quite a bit and it was very uncomfortable pressure-wise, but no blood.

<blockquote><b>Quoting she nan igans:</b>" First of all, I don't like the term "true" virgin. It bugs me. A lot. It diminishes the idea that a woman ... [snip!] ... virgin anymore because you were raped." To answer your question, no, I did not bleed. Yes, I'd been raped before that point."</blockquote>




Sorry that triggered you. I too was sexually abused as a small child. The wording was not meant to offend or trigger.