Quoting Dylan'smommy011:" I was going through the same thing with my son's dad. But I have made it clear to him that I do not care ... [snip!] ... going to. The only thing that concerns me is that he does what he needs to for our son & takes care of him responsibly. "
That's my thing, my BD was sleeping with my bridesmaid instead of watching our son while I was at work and would have all his friends over and be drinking before I got home from work. The only reason I am allowing him to keep him is because he now lives with his mother, so it's a stable environment where I know those things won't be happening, and the fact that he is working really hard to clean up his act. Regardless of those things, I still worry and obviously was going to see if he was okay since our LO hadn't seen BD in a little over 2 months so I was unsure of how he was going to handle it. I feel like I should be able to text at least once and see how his day went and bedtime. I'm so glad someone agrees with me.