re: Would you abort?

I would and wouldn't even think twice.

Good luck

Quoting Landen Wyatt's Mama:" My situation is the relationship was short lived, we both hate each other and i already have a one year ... [snip!] ... I cannot help from stressing about this and i know stress will delay your period but i keep waiting and waiting for it."

If you are you need to do what is best for your child here that you have obligations to. Weigh the options. You don't want that for the child if you are infact pregnant.

If you are you may want to post this in Abortion Survivors OP.

I would never have a baby by someone that I had been dating for only 2 months. So yep, I would abort. Hell, I am married and would strongly consider abortion if I was to get pregnant right now.

<blockquote><b>Quoting Landen Wyatt's Mama:</b>" My situation is the relationship was short lived, we both hate each other and i already have a one year ... [snip!] ... I cannot help from stressing about this and i know stress will delay your period but i keep waiting and waiting for it."</blockquote>




Try to relax. I just got my period today after being 9 days late. I had been on antibiotics which affects BC-and even though we did use a condom- it was stressful to think about. I can't do another pregnancy, and would for sure abort.

Yup. You're single, have a child already here to worry about and you hate this guy. I wouldn't want to have a kid with someone I hate, especially if I already had a kid that I needed to think about.

I dunno if I ould personally, but if you are indeed pregnant then do what is best for you and your situation. If you feel that abortion is going to be the best thing for you and your family right now then do it. You can go to a crisis pregnancy center and talk to a counselor more in-depth about your options, it might help. Try not to worry until you find out for sure if you are pregnant. Stressing and worrying about maybe being pregnant can delay your period and even cause a hysterical pregnancy

Quoting Landen Wyatt's Mama:" My most recent relationship lasted two months and we had sex like 2 days after i got off my period last ... [snip!] ... still no period and i can't make an appt. till monday and my question is, if you were in my situation would you abort or what?"

I agree that you should find out if you're pregnant first. If you go to the dollar store they have pregnancy test that are pretty much the same as they use in a doctor's office. I'd take one if you are really that worried.
With that said, you have consensual intercourse with a man. Contraceptives are only 99.9% effective (if that), and most people are aware that the only sure way to avoid pregnancy is abstinence, meaning that you probably knew that by having intercourse you risked the chance of getting pregnant. It is not the fault of the child that you chose to have sex. I'm not saying you should keep the baby, but strongly consider adoption over abortion.
That's just my opinion though.

I probably wouldn't, but I couldn't be sure since I'm not in your situation.

And, don't think about it until you have to think about it.

I'd make sure I was pregnant first.
and then yes. I'd abort.

I would wait to see if you actually are.. but I wouldn't abort.. I would give it to someone who wants a baby and can't have one due to medical reasons.. there are women who badly want one and can't naturally have a baby..

Quoting Kasey Willman:" I would wait to see if you actually are.. but I wouldn't abort.. I would give it to someone who wants ... [snip!] ... wants a baby and can't have one due to medical reasons.. there are women who badly want one and can't naturally have a baby.."

Yes... but she's not responsible to have babies for somebody else.

Why abort??? if you think you can go on living with knowing you killed your child then do it.. i for one dont support it, you know even this soon on in the pregnancy if you are the baby has a heart beat their a living human!!! You were obviously old enought to have sex your old eough to take care of your responsibilities not kill it. and no i wouldnt do it even if i was 2 months in on the relationship but like the others said that if you even are....

Quoting Kasey Willman:" I would wait to see if you actually are.. but I wouldn't abort.. I would give it to someone who wants ... [snip!] ... wants a baby and can't have one due to medical reasons.. there are women who badly want one and can't naturally have a baby.."

That's not her problem or her fault though. Why should she have a child that she doesn't want and go through a pregnancy just to make someone else happy?

There are over a million children in foster care. I'm sure if someone really wanted a child, they would go through the proper channels to get one.

Quoting Earline Huber-Winters:" Why abort??? if you think you can go on living with knowing you killed your child then do it.. i for ... [snip!] ... kill it. and no i wouldnt do it even if i was 2 months in on the relationship but like the others said that if you even are...."

You're a judgmental smurf.

Quoting Jas ♥:" That's not her problem or her fault though. Why should she have a child that she doesn't want and go ... [snip!] ... children in foster care. I'm sure if someone really wanted a child, they would go through the proper channels to get one."

No no... we're all supposed to just have babies for people who can't we're baby factories and because someone is infertile we have to make up for that.