need to vent!!!

my SO is becoming such a f*#@ing ASS!!! i'm honestly getting sick of him.. i'm 21 weeks pregnant and all he cares about is smoking weed, getting drunk and playing stupid video games!! i try and try and try, but my patience is really running thin!! like tonight, he is having a party at the house and he's going to have a whole bunch of drunk and high ppl running around the house and i honestly don't want to be around that! luckily my parents have my 2 older kids for the weekend! am i wrong? like don't you think that he should respect the fact that he has a pregnant wife? he never wants to do anything with me anymore either! he is just really inconsiderate of my feelings!!! gosh!!! i'm so close to being done! like seriously!!!

I'm more concerned he does this while he has other children... Like when you say "luckily they're at your parents house," do you mean the party would go on even if they were there?

I think you need to consider what is best for you and your babies. If he is doing that then he is only taking away from his family. I don't know about where you live, but where I'm from that would be consider child neglect and grounds to have the kids removed from their parents home with both parents being at fault. It would not matter if you were not doing the drugs or not, you'd be just as guilty for exposing the kids to that.

Quoting Rd.:" I'm more concerned he does this while he has other children... Like when you say "luckily they're at your parents house," do you mean the party would go on even if they were there?"

no, I wouldn't allow this type of thing to happen while my kids were around! i refuse to let them be exposed to these things. that's why i made sure they were at my parents house this weekend cause i knew this was going to be happening cause of his birthday.

Quoting Tiffany Knickerbocker:" I think you need to consider what is best for you and your babies. If he is doing that then he is only ... [snip!] ... at fault. It would not matter if you were not doing the drugs or not, you'd be just as guilty for exposing the kids to that."

i never let him do it around my kids.. but he'll come home high or he'll get drunk and come home.. and i'm just like wtf?! i don't know what to do at this point.. i love him very much and he use to never be like this but it seems like when he found out about this baby he started drinking and then came the weed... i don't know what i should do.

It's your call but I've worked with DCS and as far as drinking they wouldnt do anything about it unless he was violent with you or the kids but even leaving then coming home high is a different matter.