Quoting O ♥ G:" <blockquote><b>Quoting Diana plus 2:</b>" LOL. I was in the same boat! It might be ... [snip!] ... at her. I've heard of parents fussing at their kids for accidentally peeing in their pull up or diaper and that makes me sad "
Oh I understand! I didn't think of asking her to help me clean. I should do that next time. But I don't know if she'll connect the dots, though. I should really listen to my advice to you, but it's hard not to be fusterated. My LO is just really, really stubborn and just like yours, she WILL argue with me.
And yeah. Last December, I was watching these two little boys while their mom did Xmas shopping (these kids were terrible!!), and when the 2 year old (the kid is about 2 months older than my DS) had an accident, the mom's boyfriend (NOT their dad) started smacking him around and both were screaming at him. I was like..WTF? It's called an accident for a reason... and they have tiny bladders and they forget to use the bathroom when they're having fun.
The one thing with my son, though, is I gave him stickers when he first peed in the potty. For some reason, that really, really motivated him. And I tried cars, stickers, candy (yeah, I'm terrible), toys, and nothing worked in the past.