Does it ever end!!!

i hate this endless cycle of worry my life has become ever since i found out i was pregnant with my son over 2 years ago first it was the "omg my period is late i really hope im not pregnant" then it progressed to the how the hell do i tell my boyfriend and then all the usual preggo worries, after that it was the "i hope i dont get pregnant again" then we decided to have another baby so it was the "i hope i am preggo again" along side all the worries i had about my son the usual stuff should he be doing this yet and should he be doing that yet then i got pregnant again and it was omg have we made the right decision are we really ready for another baby and all the usual preggo worries all over again now shes here ive got the baby worries is she too hot or too cold is putting on enough wieght (she was born 4 weeks early so im extra worried this time round) and now im panicing about getting pregnant again im on BC and im still panicing like mad does this ever end? i am fed up of being so neurotic what happend to the free spirited go with the flow girl i used to be, it scares me cause i already see bits of my mum coming out in things i say. Has anyone else noticed this stuff happening to them or is it just me?

Why are you having sex and children with a man you're not married to? You keep saying "oh my god"..... are you calling out to Him..,or just using His name in Vain?

I'm not being ugly, just curious.

firstly i am married to the man i have my children with we wernt married when i found out i was pregnant with my son but were planning it and i was on BC at the time. and no i am not calling out to god when i put OMG i mean OH MY GOSH not OH MY GOD.....

Quoting Kathleen S:“ Why are you having sex and children with a man you're not married to? You keep saying "oh my god"..... ... [snip!] ... keep saying "oh my god"..... are you calling out to Him..,or just using His name in Vain? I'm not being ugly, just curious.”

I dont think you have the right to say something like this, I had my baba before i was married, this is 2008 sweetie no the 60's, NOT everyone belives in god, goodness.

Quoting Kathleen S:“ Why are you having sex and children with a man you're not married to? You keep saying "oh my god"..... ... [snip!] ... keep saying "oh my god"..... are you calling out to Him..,or just using His name in Vain? I'm not being ugly, just curious.”

Thisis the year 2008 honey......you dont have to be married to have babies and be a family together...your ignorant

Quoting *Justtryingagain*:“ I dont think you have the right to say something like this, I had my baba before i was married, this is 2008 sweetie no the 60's, NOT everyone belives in god, goodness.”

you are right was gonna put my 2 peneth in about my opinion on"god" but dont want to end up having this end up in TDC as i am aware that alot of people have some strong and differing views on religion my take on it is that from my expreinces in life and the stuff that i see happening in the world i dont believe that there could be a god but thats just my opinion

Obviously not everyone believes in God. Not a huge revelation. I'm just curious why people who DON'T believe in God, would use the term "OMG: 'oh my god'". If it's "oh my gosh".. that's what people say.. they don't say "OMG".

There IS a difference and I'm certainly not casting any stones, but rather was just curious.

Quoting Kathleen S:“ Obviously not everyone believes in God. Not a huge revelation. I'm just curious why people who DON'T ... [snip!] ... say.. they don't say "OMG". There IS a difference and I'm certainly not casting any stones, but rather was just curious.”

casting stones.....and being Judgemental as all hell

Quoting expectin trouble:“ you are right was gonna put my 2 peneth in about my opinion on"god" but dont want to end up having this ... [snip!] ... in life and the stuff that i see happening in the world i dont believe that there could be a god but thats just my opinion”

You are certainly entitled to your opinion, but if you read the Bible you'll see that everything that is going on in the world was foretold a long time ago. Therefore proving the existance of God.

Quoting Daniellebeauvais:“ casting stones.....and being Judgemental as all hell”

Nope not at all.

Excuse me but im the one who put OMG and i meant OH MY GOSH and even if i didnt it doesnt mean that i would have to believe in god its a figure of speech...... i love how you said your not being ugly just curious yet both your posts seem more accusitory than inquisitive in my opinion

Quoting Kathleen S:“ Obviously not everyone believes in God. Not a huge revelation. I'm just curious why people who DON'T ... [snip!] ... say.. they don't say "OMG". There IS a difference and I'm certainly not casting any stones, but rather was just curious.”

you didnt sound just curious to me you sounded like a judgmental bitch...


Anyway about your post, have your ever thought that it may be anxiety? Eveyone worries ecspecially mothers but if its getting to where its more of a burden and is seriously stressing you out, you might want to consider bringing it up to your doctor, you could have anxiety...

Quoting expectin trouble:“ Excuse me but im the one who put OMG and i meant OH MY GOSH and even if i didnt it doesnt mean that i ... [snip!] ... i love how you said your not being ugly just curious yet both your posts seem more accusitory than inquisitive in my opinion”

"amen"

Quoting Kathleen S:“ You are certainly entitled to your opinion, but if you read the Bible you'll see that everything that is going on in the world was foretold a long time ago. Therefore proving the existance of God.”

What a load of tosh the bible from what i remember of it in school never fore told that i would be abandonded by my mother or that i would go through such hell as a child and i dont recall seeing anywhere in the bible that innocent children would suffer in such horrible ways ie poverty peadophiles and child mureders

Quoting Daniellebeauvais:“ Thisis the year 2008 honey......you dont have to be married to have babies and be a family together...your ignorant”

You didn't have to be married in any year of our existance to have a child.Just look in the Bible when Jesus was talking to the woman at the well. He knew that she had been married multiple times and the man she wascurrently with was not her husband. Her response to her was "go and sin no more".

Now if you don't believe in God.. that's fine.Just don't bring God into your vocabulary or use His name in Vain. One day you will fall upon your knees and Proclaim that Jesus is God, crying out in anguish and begging for mercy.

Just the facts, ma'am, just the facts.