re: need some advice/ answers!

A swing!!

& for the bottle thing. If you plan on giving them a bottle at all, you should introduce it around 6 or so weeks. My 5 month will have nothing to do with a bottle, she'll scream until I give her the boob. LOL.
& my nephew who is a month old is breastfed. She gives him bottles and he latches just fine. Some babies are just "lazy" & once they get it from a bottle they don't want to work for it from the boob, it happened with my first LOL.

<blockquote><b>Quoting missmommy.x3 J,A&B:</b>" A swing!! & for the bottle thing. If you plan on giving them a bottle at all, you should introduce ... [snip!] ... just "lazy" & once they get it from a bottle they don't want to work for it from the boob, it happened with my first LOL."</blockquote>


The Medela Calma bottle fixes that. It's made to simulate a nipple. It doesn't leak and they have to work for it the same way they do at the boob. It's amazing.