questions?

So im 25 weeks and all day i have felt sick and have been getting cramps but my mom said she it was normal but all i wanted to do today was lay in my bed curled up in a ball because i just wasnt feeling good; and on top of that i get extremely aggravated and irritated when people touch me and it goes from my boyfriend hugging me or cuddling i just hate to be touched and i dont know why? even if someone hugs me and if i think its to long ill bust out crying because i just cant stand to be touch? and i dont know whats going on or if any of its normal?

Quoting Veronika Karn:" So im 25 weeks and all day i have felt sick and have been getting cramps but my mom said she it was normal ... [snip!] ... its to long ill bust out crying because i just cant stand to be touch? and i dont know whats going on or if any of its normal? "

all normal. homones and normal pregancy pain. you will have days like this, best thing to do is try and relax, drink lots of water (dehydration can cause lots of pain) and try and be as nice as possible, and appoligize later if need be. *hugs*

Quoting Veronika Karn:" So im 25 weeks and all day i have felt sick and have been getting cramps but my mom said she it was normal ... [snip!] ... its to long ill bust out crying because i just cant stand to be touch? and i dont know whats going on or if any of its normal? "

Hormones. I HATED being touched when I was pregnant. It pissed me off when anyone other than my husband touched my belly or me and even then, it was short periods of time I would let him! lol with my son, I was extra lovey with my twins though. They could snuggle up to me (they were 25 months old when he was born so still pretty little thru the pregnancy) and rub my belly no problem. Anyone else had to back the eff off! lol

Quoting Not tellin:" Hormones. I HATED being touched when I was pregnant. It pissed me off when anyone other than my husband ... [snip!] ... he was born so still pretty little thru the pregnancy) and rub my belly no problem. Anyone else had to back the eff off! lol"

so me not being able to stand to be touch isnt completely unusual?

Quoting Veronika Karn:" so me not being able to stand to be touch isnt completely unusual?"

Nope! I even hated how my husband smelled. Poor guy took 4 showers a day sometimes more to please my over sensitive nose. lol


Basically, your hormones OWN you right now. You are at their mercy. I cried at funny commercials. My favorite commercials were the windex commercials when the birds flew into the windows. I would cry when I watched them. They were funny but I was crying. lol Stupid but that smurf happens.

Remind yourself that you have to try to keep them in check. When I was pregnant I would really have to think long and hard before I said anything. I was liable to over react in a hot second. It is not my nature to over react so people who knew me understood. I did alot of "i'm sorry's" and "hang on a moment's" while I evaluated what I was going to say or do. lol

lol i just had to tell my husband i was so sorry, he cut me a peice of pumpkin pie and put the whip cream on wrong....umm...serousuly mandy?? how do you put whip cream on wrong!? ugh. total bitch moment, and thankfully, he is kind and forgiving, and knows thats the pregnancy that makes me think something huge is whip cream. lots of "im sorrys"

Normal. I felt the same way, whenever my husband would come near me, I just felt like throwing up. It was so bad, I didn't see him for about a month and a half at the beginning of my pregnancy.