What's wrong with me?

I've been seperated for almost a year now. I haven't dated since. I had a date tonight and it went great. We hit it off, and he was really nice and sweet. As soon as he reached in to touch my arm and kiss my cheek, I burst out crying and I couldn't stop. He tried to comfort me but I told him I needed to leave, and I did...

I feel bad. I'm not ready. I thought I was but I guess not. Has anyone else had a hard time moving on? how long did it take you to move on? I'm confused by my reaction.

Because of the history of abuse, I'd say there was nothing wrong with your reaction to him being in your personal space. You'll get there some day, and if this person is someone truly interested in you, he would understand your reaction

(Hugs) it will get easier...you are still healing. Don't push yourself or beat yourself up over it. It will get better every day.

Thanks guys