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posted 11th Oct
The baby isn't here yet, how has he "turned his back" on him?
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I'm due December 28th, have 1 child & live in Ontario
posted 11th Oct
He's an epic smurf. Wait til the baby is born an see how he reacts ten. File for child support but if you do expect visitation.

Get on birth control and trust your gut from now on.
quotesmurfs?
I live in Australia
posted 11th Oct
Wow I am so sorry you had to go through this, personally if he doesnt want to be a father I wouldnt push some things are better left alone. I have problems with my sons father and wish every day he would just walk away because he is only wanting to see his son to hurt me. I hope everything works out and you can get away and stay away from this man., sometimes raising your kid alone is better than dealing with an smurf. Hugs
quotesmurfs?
I have 6 kids & 3 angel babies & live in Washington
posted 11th Oct
Muslim....yeah totally against his religion



What do you have against that religion?





How could you ot meet friends or family during your relationship?How could you see eighteen different sides of him before realizing he is a horrible person? How could you be stupid enough to not get on BC in the first place! You did not know him! This is your life, and you let some stranger talk you out of a better one
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I have 1 child & live in Albligen, Switzerland
posted 11th Oct
Quoting Monkey Nuts:" He's an epic smurf. Wait til the baby is born an see how he reacts ten. File for child support but if you do expect visitation. Get on birth control and trust your gut from now on."


All of this. Also, file for custody. I know it may sound silly considering he may not want anything to do with the kid, but without a custody agreement the father can take the child and it will be hard to get him/her back.
quotesmurfs?
I have 2 kids & live in Quetzaltenango, Guatemala
posted 11th Oct
Most important advise i can give is even if you raise ur children as a single mom, dont talk down about their fathers in front of them, it only makes things worse... and theother thing is no one said it was guna be easy lol u seem like a very strong woman and if u can do it once alone, then u can do it again... i wouldnt go back to him or try to work things out if its been a lie from day 1. Cuz then it will always be a lie after a lie... do wats right by you and ur children and devote ur attention and love to them.. :-)
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I'm due March 24th (a girl), have 1 child & live in La Grande, Oregon
posted 11th Oct
Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" All of this. Also, file for custody. I know it may sound silly considering he may not want anything ... [snip!] ... to do with the kid, but without a custody agreement the father can take the child and it will be hard to get him/her back. "

Actually, she lives in Georgia. As an unwed mother, she has instant full custody of her child. The father has no rights in Georgia.
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I have 2 kids & live in Alpharetta, Georgia
posted 11th Oct
Quoting Blair Waldorf (SuperKink):" Actually, she lives in Georgia. As an unwed mother, she has instant full custody of her child. The father has no rights in Georgia."

Georgia rocks, then!
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I have 2 kids & live in Quetzaltenango, Guatemala
posted 11th Oct
Quoting Rumpelstiltskin:" Georgia rocks, then! "

Yep. Even if he wormed his way onto the BC, he'd still have no rights until he filed for them and was awarded them.
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I have 2 kids & live in Alpharetta, Georgia
posted 11th Oct

Quoting speaktruth2powr:" The baby isn't here yet, how has he "turned his back" on him?"
He said if I apply for child support, then he will not be there...as well as other things. That's how!
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I live in Georgia
posted 11th Oct
Am I the only person who is confused why people think this guy is an smurf/potential deadbeat?
quotesmurfs?
I'm due December 28th, have 1 child & live in Ontario
posted 11th Oct

Quoting Bobo's mum:" Muslim....yeah totally against his religion What do you have against that religion? How could ... [snip!] ... get on BC in the first place! You did not know him! This is your life, and you let some stranger talk you out of a better one"
First off I asked you and anyone else to leave the criticism to yourself! Your ''stupid'' reply was not needed..and quite frankly you could have kept it to yourself! Now have a nice day!
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I live in Georgia
posted 11th Oct
Quoting speaktruth2powr:" Am I the only person who is confused why people think this guy is an smurf/potential deadbeat?"

Does the fact that he yo-yos between contacting her and cutting off all contact with her not throwing up huge red flags for you? Or the fact that she's never met any of his friends or family and is still married? He also denied the child as being his at one point. And when she said she was pregnant, he asked if she was going to abort and got mad at her. What else do you need?
quotesmurfs?
I have 2 kids & live in Alpharetta, Georgia
posted 11th Oct

Quoting Bobo's mum:" Muslim....yeah totally against his religion What do you have against that religion? How could ... [snip!] ... get on BC in the first place! You did not know him! This is your life, and you let some stranger talk you out of a better one"
And another thing...I obviously have NOTHING against that religion if I was involved with a Muslim! If you read what I wrote I said what he is doing (me as well) is totally against his religion!!
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I live in Georgia
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